Thank you all for your helpful responses. Even if they don't all work for my situation, I appreciate the support.
Primal Papa Nice to see you and thanks for your input. I think my husband worries that I am angry with him because he doesn't make enough money. Not at all why I am angry/hurt. In addition I wanted to be clear that I am not jumping ship, though my husband seems to fear will. It is not because I am a woman of loose morals, but because he sees how my Primal life has made me attractive to other men. He also senses that I am unhappy much as you do with your wife.