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    Be easy on him, Paula, and know how hard it is for you not to eat something. (I know you could very easily say the same thing to me, which is why I feel free to say it). Is there something that triggered his AFib? (and if it is bread I am gonna take back that first sentence!!!) Lack of sleep is the worst! Sorry you are having to have such a hard day.
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    I hope you had a good nap and end up with a restful sleep tonight.
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    I think his AFIB is a result of gluten allergy. There is also some connection with low magnesium levels.
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    Shit, it is very hard to deal with someone who will not take responsibility for their decisions/actions. I just saw this quote yesterday on pinterest....."The moment you take responsibility for everything in your life is the moment you can change anything in your life"

    My idea is to get crafty, take some time to make this (or a similar quote) into a poster somehow, or even a small framed card. He should at least ask what you are doing during the process if he does and manages to turn it into a conversation then you can use it for your classroom or if he misses the point actually hang it in your house.

    My DH will take responsibility, but has never (seriously) said he was sorry for anything. Once to be a smart ass, but never sincerely.
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    Internet hugs. Nothing helpful to say. Any chance hubby would consider couples counselling? Might be good to have a neutral space to discuss things, where he might be more inclined to keep his cool.
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    Couples counseling may be possible, when we get more financially stable.
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    I am afraid I have nothing to add, I am sad that that is true, but feel certain nothing I could possibly say would help you out. I do wish you the very best, I am heartbroken that it is not currently with the hubs, but hope it will turn around soon. In the mean time, flirtations help to keep you feeling human/attractive/sexy not sure taking it further would do the same.

    Any chance there is a minister or some such that could help out? I recently saw this article (I like this blog, lots of interesting stuff) it might help in the interim Free Marriage Counseling: How to Do it Yourself | The Art of Manliness
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    Sorry about your hubby troubles. Couples therapy would be a great option. Maybe writing him a note so that you could get across your point and not be mad or pressured while you do it. Another option I would take would be to stop allowing bread and other wheat products in the house. If you know that they effect him and he wants to blame you then let him be mad at you for making him healthier. Sure the kids will throw a fit but they will find plenty of crap to eat outside the house (at least my kids do). This may cause the family to call you a food nazi (mine does or atleast used to) but we are all healthier for it. Sending hugs your way as this real life crap is never fun.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Mud Flinger View Post
    Another option I would take would be to stop allowing bread and other wheat products in the house.
    I would find a more diplomatic way to phrase this. Speaking as a grown ass man, no one disallows me to do anything in my house whether that be eating bread or what have you. Now, I can be made to see reason if approached the right way but if my wife were to say, "I am not allowing bread into the house," I would ask her where she is moving. (and I don't even eat bread. It is the principle of it)

    (and to be fair, I would never tell my wife, "No more diet coke is allowed in this house" etc. Ultimatums do not good communication make.)

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