Finding something that the whole family can live with is a major issue in our house. Although as it turns out DH has gotten this bug in his bonnet about meat, I am trying to ignore it. I have been mostly making a salad (caesar for the kid, and BAS for DH and I) then a protein and a veggie or 2. When I do something carby for them it is usually on the side of at least the salad. Over the course of a couple of weeks I make them homemade pizza one night and pasta one night and they get ice cream one night each weekend and once a month or so I make a loaf of bread when we have company-none of which I eat. I use the best sources I can and make everything from scratch, so I figure they are better off than most. Small changes and eventually they will have changed over and not even realize it.