Paula, I know it is probably not easy for you to put it all out there, but it helps me come to terms with things I would likely just keep tucked under my radar screen. Then I read something you write and it hits a nerve. Actually Jon saying he had not had sex in 6 years hit the nerve, it makes me sad to think that if I don't get the courage to say something that is the road I am on. And I fear that saying something will make matters worse, not that I can think of what worse would be. Anyway, thanks.
p.s. looking forward to the wedding pic. Mine was on that sparkpeople page I left a link to. Ours was 20 years ago, and I was 80 pounds lighter.