Yeah, I get sleepy during the day but if I drink it after 4PM I cannot sleep at night. Isn't that weird? That really puzzles me. I have always had opposite responses to medications that are known to stimulate or make one sleepy. When I was a kid I used to take speed to help me focus and concentrate (calm me down) but that was before all the treatments for ADD came out. I guess I was an undiagnosed ADD person.
Good luck with the getting off the honey in the coffee thing. I sometimes take a teaspoon of honey at night if I am having a hard time getting to sleep. It works most of the time and I am snoozing away in no time. I read about that some place. I think it was in a paleo site.