Ahh, so there is some balance there. That's positive. It does sound like he's having a rough time, and some of that rough time is translating its way over to you as a result.
I didn't think I was necessarily on-target but anything that gives food for thought is hopefully helpful! Even if in the end you decide, "Nah, that's really not it."
Yikes, feeling obliged to IF to save money is a little scary. But if you're already in an IF-able mood, that's different I suppose.
Ground turkey... how about soup? Broth + diced veggies (celery + carrot + onions), cook till veggies are done, then throw in the ground turkey and break it up? This stew is basically one of my staple foods. Not always turkey, usually ground beef plus either turkey or chicken.