Nanny going primal!
At least she's cooking our meals primal.
I bought Primal Blueprint, and I gave it to our nanny who cooks our dinner for us. She has started making recipes from the book. Now the one meal I couldn't really control is fixed.
How are other people dealing with a non-primal cook? Give him/her the book with helpful recipes and you may solve the problem.
I should hope that a person who you are paying to cook dinner would cook what you requested. I don't see how that would even be an issue. But congratulations on overcoming such an obstacle.
Wife doesn't follow the diet. So ...