I know exactly what you are going thru , dealing with the same with my family. a lot of days I make separate meals . but a lot of the time they will eat what I cook because it is good . but when they want their spaghetti or pizza , I just make my own meal . not cost effective but better than eating the pizza. it can be quite frustrating.
glad to hear you are back on track , I cheated a bit over the holiday myself and felt terrible for days
can force you into doing things you should be doing anyway. Lessons
come from adversity. Anything can happen to anyone... You can find a
new lease on life - more meaning than you thought possible in simple
things... Let go. Live in the moment. Go forward". Christopher Reeve