Personally I'm not anti carb/grain when it comes to kids, but gluten is something we try to avoid. White rice is fine and I'm okay with gluten free breads for my son. He goes through times when he wants almond butter and jam sandwiches and times when he won't eat them at all.
I just try not to to put too much pressure on eating because it can back fire. If she doesn't like salads, fine they aren't essential to a healthy diet. My son is now 16 and has never eaten a salad, he does eat raw carrots and cucumbers though and plenty of other veggies. Most kids like fruit and fruit has just about all the nutrients as vegetables so why not just let her eat them instead?
Life is death. We all take turns. It's sacred to eat during our turn and be eaten when our turn is over. RichMahogany.