Rattybag, I've been fighting Chocotaco for months. He routinely touts his diet as the One True Diet. His way may work for young men, but it doesn't work for middle-aged women.
That said, you're eating too much fat, not enough meat, and it looks like you aren't getting nearly the nutrients you need.
I suggest trying something radical.
A little butter and salt for flavor.
That's all. For 4-6 weeks. If that doesn't shock your system into weight loss, then I'll admit that *I'm* at a loss.
5'0" female, 45 years old. Started Primal October 31, 2011, at a skinny fat 111.5 lbs. Low weight: 99.5 lb on a fast. Gained back to 115(!) on SAD chocolate, potato chips, and stress. Currently 111.