Maybe it would be easier for Brad if you simplify the spread sheet - just for his benefit. Make out a simple "this is our total income" ........ and "this is our total expenditure" .......... maybe that will help him see that one isn't matching the other.
Good luck, Jenn - I know this is a huge thorn in your side and you keep trying to get things right. Maybe telling him sincerely that you really need his help to get the finances in order.
1. Love ME no matter what noises are screaming at me, or who is trying to tear me down.
2. Eat to heal
3. Move to live
4. Embrace today
5. Live with intention
6. Respect my body
7. Cultivate joy
8. Find my passion
9. Meditate on peace in my soul