As I got older and in poorer shape, the ladies stopped looking. I'm married, so I told myself this was ok. I discovered primal in December and have had quite a bit of success following the lifestyle. Sometime between last December and now, the ladies have started looking again. At the risk of sounding shallow, it is nice to be noticed again.
I share the above because I've been through attractive to invisible, then invisible to attractive (attractive being a relative term in my case). Each is a mental adjustment; however, the latter is empowering.
You will adjust! Give yourself some time.