I'm not sure what journal you're talking about either and I'll probably try not to find out. I don't like journals like that where I feel like I have to be a mother and step in when someone is being unreasonable or making poor judgment.
I haven't gotten into the she-grok thread. I started to read it once but never got pulled in enough to stick with it. It wouldn't surprise me at all to find that happening. I see that a lot here at MDA. It's sad really.