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  1. Strong dark Belgian ale. All weekend long. And...

    Strong dark Belgian ale. All weekend long. And carbonade flamande made with strong, dark Belgian ale.
  2. So...The Date. I've been hesitant to say...

    So...The Date.

    I've been hesitant to say anything because ever since I told my wife about everything, it's been so anticlimactic. We all had fun last night and clueless douchebag is still...
  3. Poll: Eat it. When my niece makes butter cake or...

    Eat it. When my niece makes butter cake or cheesecake for my birthday, I eat that sh*t and I love it.
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    Have to agree. Violent destruction, just to make...

    Have to agree. Violent destruction, just to make a point.
  5. Semantically correct. But then altruism isn't...

    Semantically correct. But then altruism isn't truly possible.
  6. This thread has gone on longer than I ever...

    This thread has gone on longer than I ever anticipated and my story really doesn't deserve the attention. But I would like to thank everyone who has responded. There isn't a single response that...
  7. I suspect so. I know they've been talking...

    I suspect so. I know they've been talking together a LOT about the funk I've been in lately.



    No, she's not helpless and she has engaged in some pretty significant manipulation and deceit. ...
  8. OW is profoundly hurt and that makes her selfish,...

    OW is profoundly hurt and that makes her selfish, not evil. I was supposed to be the strong one but I let it go too far before I recognized what was happening...

    ...and that's being dishonest. I...
  9. Gwamma, I chose that word very deliberately for a...

    Gwamma, I chose that word very deliberately for a couple of reasons. First of all, in my present state of mind, categorizing it that way is far less painful. Thinking of it as a beautiful, intense...
  10. You're right, the last thing she needs is to see...

    You're right, the last thing she needs is to see me turn into a pig. And she certainly doesn't need to bear the guilt for it afterwards.
  11. Would anyone be shocked to learn that I got...

    Would anyone be shocked to learn that I got freindzoned a lot before I met my wife?
  12. Our conversations are often about her...

    Our conversations are often about her self-loathing over her behavior and her stilted view of men and love. I know how flawed she is. I also know she's quite exceptional in other ways and it takes...
  13. All low-hanging fruit... Before walking...

    All low-hanging fruit...


    Before walking in the door after my evening commute, remind myself that I'm happy to be home rather than mad at the world.

    Then kiss her like I f*cking mean...
  14. When I told my wife about OW, one of the reasons...

    When I told my wife about OW, one of the reasons she gave for being so unconcerned is that my association with OW has had a noticeably positive effect on our marriage. You see, I had always been...
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    I live in a community where this is very...

    I live in a community where this is very noticeable. There are many fit, attractive women in the 30-50 year age group (they also tend to be surgically enhanced - eww). Their husbands are almost...
  16. pre-workout: Black coffee post workout: Sweet...

    pre-workout: Black coffee

    post workout: Sweet potato with coconut milk, cinnamon and vanilla + 12 oz bag of spinnach + 12 oz ground beef
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    I realize I'm in no position to be giving...

    I realize I'm in no position to be giving relationship advice, but I'm pretty sure intimate physical contact won't help facilitate emotional separation.

    Unless she's really, really hot. Then get...
  18. You know, there might be a soap opera flavor to...

    You know, there might be a soap opera flavor to some of this, but, besides sleep, one of the most neglected aspects of what is espoused as "Primal" is the social. Interpersonal relationships are...
  19. I think because the focus has been on the...

    I think because the focus has been on the relationship with OW I've failed to convey what a wonderful relationship I have with my wife. We have almost no friends left who are still in their first...
  20. OK, in an effort to make this less of a soap...

    OK, in an effort to make this less of a soap opera and more relevant to MDA, I'm wondering why, if the seed-spreading theory is the primal motivator here, why all the emotional baggage?

    There are...
  21. Honestly? Yes. Double standard? Yes. In...

    Honestly? Yes.

    Double standard? Yes.

    In my defense, my wife has been slightly less faithful than I (but it was when we were dating).
  22. qqemokitty, I'm aware of schmucky this can...

    qqemokitty,

    I'm aware of schmucky this can seem but there is no conspiracy. It was just two friends who talk ending up somewhere unexpected.

    OW would be very open to polyamory and would very...
  23. I have to admit I've received far more...

    I have to admit I've received far more constructive advice than I expected and will make an appointment with my counselor. I'm grateful to all who responded both on the forum and privately.

    I'll...
  24. We got to this point long before douchebag came...

    We got to this point long before douchebag came crawling back. And for the record, he's a clueless douchebag.
  25. The good new is that I already have a counselor I...

    The good new is that I already have a counselor I can see. Therapy at least has the potential to help me navigate this without losing or hurting anyone.



    Again, thank you for encouraging...
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