[QUOTE=longjogroz;1035408]suggestions as to what, exactly, to tell the in-laws![/QUOTE]Told my family and both daughters' in laws that I have given up grains to lose weight and keep it off, further, that apart from special occasions will not be eating them again. I have never been known for my diplomacy as evidenced by my signature below.
thanks for the suggestions everybody! I have offered to host Christmas dinner, so that's one meal i can be totally sure of! Now i'm off to find a good chocolate cake recipe...:)