Well if you are wearing the Victorias secrect dress he may not notice 10 pounds or a tarantula sitting on your head. I'd go with Magnolias suggestions. I would imagine if he is interested in you still, he won't care either way if he is in anyway a decent guy.
[QUOTE=sbhikes;1020394]This thread makes me sad. We are not the number on the scale. And who do we become if we work out for half the day and spend the rest of the day worrying about our bodies? Empty and ready to be treated badly by someone attracted to empty people, that's what. I'm not criticizing the person who started this topic. I'm just sad that this is what is inside of most of us women.[/QUOTE]
I know! Who the hell cares what he thinks, it's what you (OP I am speaking to you) think about yourself that matters!
I agree with Sbhikes and jojohaligo. You need to ask yourself if [I]you[/I] like him and if so why? If it's all about physical attraction then it probably wont last. In the mean time have some fun.
BTW that dress Magnolia picked is hot... get it and where it around the house just to remind yourself how attractive you are; plus or minus 10 pounds.
Hahaha, this is why I love MDA. I wish I had time to respond to all of you ...but I have a date to go get ready for ;)
Some of you are absolutely hysterical, most are completely right, and others well you add to the variety
here goes nothing! or everything? meh ... its just going
"I am 10 pounds heavier"
Humans are known to be more critical of their own appearance than of others. Honestly, as a heterosexual male, if I thought a woman was hot, I would still think she was hot 10 pounds heavier. (maybe even hotter)
I actually think my wife is hotter 10lbs heavier than what she thinks is her ideal weight. So quit getting hung up on the scale, and feel good about yourself.
You might be carrying cortisol weight from all that exercise.
And I can gain and lose ten pounds in a week in water weight, no problem. It's nothing.