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  • #16
    Originally posted by Mr. Anthony View Post
    Make sure you image search that one with all filters turned off.
    The yielded result was somewhat disappointing...



    Originally posted by not on the rug View Post
    you know you love us
    Haha. Not as much as my bf is going to love you when I tell him Rich's assertions about the withdrawal method... You guys can probably expect a Christmas ham.
    "I think the basic anti-aging diet is also the best diet for prevention and treatment of diabetes, scleroderma, and the various "connective tissue diseases." This would emphasize high protein, low unsaturated fats, low iron, and high antioxidant consumption, with a moderate or low starch consumption.

    In practice, this means that a major part of the diet should be milk, cheese, eggs, shellfish, fruits and coconut oil, with vitamin E and salt as the safest supplements."

    - Ray Peat

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    • #17
      Originally posted by YogaBare View Post
      Not as much as my bf is going to love you when I tell him Rich's assertions about the withdrawal method... You guys can probably expect a Christmas ham.
      Well, tell him I'm gonna come over there and beat his ass if he doesn't get it out well ahead of time. I don't want to take the blame for any consequences of an untimely withdrawal. A bone-in ham would be appropriate.
      The Champagne of Beards

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      • #18
        Originally posted by YogaBare View Post
        ...because I know that motherhood isnt for me.
        Have you considered sterilization? Seems like a better way to go if you're sure you don't want kids.

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        • #19
          In case of mistakes, keep a Plan B/morning after pill around (it is NOT an abortion, just prevention) and be prepared for the hormonal roller coaster that follows. I hate them (the mood swings for the couple weeks after taking it are awful), but after having needed them for accidents & mess-ups a few times, I'm terribly grateful.

          I can be um... clingy. So withdrawal wasn't a safe option for us. You have to be able to withdraw :-P.

          The copper IUD works by inflaming the lining of the uterus, making it an inhospitable environment for sperm. If an egg is fertilized, it can't stick to the lining. They're highly effective, but like most forms of birth control that aren't just manual control (what I would consider "natural planning", utilizes no foreign object/substance directly to prevent pregnancy), there are still risks and they can be very bad if you are one of those 1%.
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          • #20
            So far so good on the calendar method for a few years now.

            M.

            EDIT: Nameless, do they actually let you take Plan B home? In my experience around here, you have to take them in the presence of the vendor.

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            • #21
              Originally posted by RichMahogany View Post
              A bone-in ham
              is that a euphemism for doing the robert frost? i.e. taking the road less traveled?

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              • #22
                Originally posted by MEversbergII View Post
                EDIT: Nameless, do they actually let you take Plan B home? In my experience around here, you have to take them in the presence of the vendor.
                Maybe it's a state-by-state thing? Here, you go to any pharmacy, ask if they have it. They might give you the option for generic or name-brand (there are a couple: one is one pill; the other is two pills, taken 12 hrs apart). You might have to give an ID for proof of age (16+, I believe). It's around $50, though I've gotten it for around $40 in the past (probably generic). That's it.
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                • #23
                  Originally posted by not on the rug View Post
                  is that a euphemism for doing the robert frost? i.e. taking the road less traveled?
                  Sounds like you want a corndog.

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                  • #24
                    Originally posted by RichMahogany View Post
                    Well, tell him I'm gonna come over there and beat his ass if he doesn't get it out well ahead of time. I don't want to take the blame for any consequences of an untimely withdrawal. A bone-in ham would be appropriate.
                    Interesting visual

                    Would you like a string around your boned ham?

                    Originally posted by quikky View Post
                    Have you considered sterilization? Seems like a better way to go if you're sure you don't want kids.
                    Eek. Well, honestly... I suspect I'm one of those women who'll hit 38 and decide I want a sprog. Sterilisation is difficult to reverse.

                    Originally posted by namelesswonder View Post
                    In case of mistakes, keep a Plan B/morning after pill around (it is NOT an abortion, just prevention) and be prepared for the hormonal roller coaster that follows. I hate them (the mood swings for the couple weeks after taking it are awful), but after having needed them for accidents & mess-ups a few times, I'm terribly grateful.

                    I can be um... clingy. So withdrawal wasn't a safe option for us. You have to be able to withdraw :-P.

                    The copper IUD works by inflaming the lining of the uterus, making it an inhospitable environment for sperm. If an egg is fertilized, it can't stick to the lining. They're highly effective, but like most forms of birth control that aren't just manual control (what I would consider "natural planning", utilizes no foreign object/substance directly to prevent pregnancy), there are still risks and they can be very bad if you are one of those 1%.
                    If you only knew how many times I took the morning after pill... It's probably a large reason I became Oestrogen dominant. I've also done more than 30 pregnancy tests... #paranoid.

                    Withdrawal isnt so bad... it's kind of kinky Just not all the time.
                    "I think the basic anti-aging diet is also the best diet for prevention and treatment of diabetes, scleroderma, and the various "connective tissue diseases." This would emphasize high protein, low unsaturated fats, low iron, and high antioxidant consumption, with a moderate or low starch consumption.

                    In practice, this means that a major part of the diet should be milk, cheese, eggs, shellfish, fruits and coconut oil, with vitamin E and salt as the safest supplements."

                    - Ray Peat

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                    • #25
                      Originally posted by YogaBare View Post
                      Eek. Well, honestly... I suspect I'm one of those women who'll hit 38 and decide I want a sprog. Sterilisation is difficult to reverse.
                      Gotcha. You're not so sure about the motherhood thing.

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                      • #26
                        are you taking temps, YB? i did when i first started but quickly relaxed it was pointless for prevention of pregnancy bc by the time you wait for the spike of ovulation, you could already be pg. so i monitored cervical mucous only. highly effective for me. (yes, yes we had that one mishap, but it was my third pregnancy and we were planning on 4-5 anyway so it wasn't a big deal…but before and after that pregnancy, monitoring cervical mucous was perfect for us.) for me, as soon as my CM changed a week-week and a half after my period ended, i knew i would ovulate 5-7 days later. you can conceive if you continue to do the deed during this week, so i labeled this week 'danger week' and we abstained plus 3 days after ovulation.

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                        • #27
                          withdrawal is still russian roulette. a guy can, ahem, leak highly populated drippings and not realize it which can, indeed lead to pregnancy. just saying'….

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                          • #28
                            Originally posted by quikky View Post
                            Gotcha. You're not so sure about the motherhood thing.
                            I'm 100% sure I dont want to be a mother before the age of 38. Whether the maternal instinct kicks in after that remains to be seen

                            Originally posted by dazygyrl View Post
                            are you taking temps, YB? i did when i first started but quickly relaxed it was pointless for prevention of pregnancy bc by the time you wait for the spike of ovulation, you could already be pg. so i monitored cervical mucous only. highly effective for me. (yes, yes we had that one mishap, but it was my third pregnancy and we were planning on 4-5 anyway so it wasn't a big deal…but before and after that pregnancy, monitoring cervical mucous was perfect for us.) for me, as soon as my CM changed a week-week and a half after my period ended, i knew i would ovulate 5-7 days later. you can conceive if you continue to do the deed during this week, so i labeled this week 'danger week' and we abstained plus 3 days after ovulation.
                            I agree - I think temp is useful if you are trying to conceive, as it gives confirmation of ovulation. I'm monitoring lots of things - mucus, mood, cravings... My body is still a little crazy as I'm recovering from Oestrogen dominance so I should probably tread lightly with this.
                            "I think the basic anti-aging diet is also the best diet for prevention and treatment of diabetes, scleroderma, and the various "connective tissue diseases." This would emphasize high protein, low unsaturated fats, low iron, and high antioxidant consumption, with a moderate or low starch consumption.

                            In practice, this means that a major part of the diet should be milk, cheese, eggs, shellfish, fruits and coconut oil, with vitamin E and salt as the safest supplements."

                            - Ray Peat

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                            • #29
                              The wife and I have been doing the withdraw method going on 4 years and no slip ups.

                              Plus, I have almost perfected another way of signing my name.

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                              • #30
                                Originally posted by dazygyrl View Post
                                withdrawal is still russian roulette. a guy can, ahem, leak highly populated drippings and not realize it which can, indeed lead to pregnancy. just saying'.
                                If you're perpetuating the propaganda about pre-cum contains sperm, I challenge you to a duel of google-fu. Challenge: You can't use anything that makes claims in lieu of data from any type of public health administration.
                                The Champagne of Beards

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