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  • #61
    Originally posted by Zanna View Post
    I think you will also be amazed at how light you'll feel once you have accepted it. You'll start to get excited about going back to CA and you'll feel guilty about that excitement, but hold onto the little thrill you get when thinking about going to a place that makes you happy. That will help with the next month and also when you're headed out to start your new life. You don't realize how heavy it is, carrying the load of a relationship that doesn't make you happy, until you're not carrying it any longer.

    I get sad thinking about hubby moving out, but now I'm also kinda excited about things I can do and plan for when I'm free.
    I'm looking forward to that.

    I'll probably start packing this weekend if I get some time alone at home. I don't really feel comfortable packing in front of him--I don't know, seems kind of cruel.

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    • #62
      Originally posted by diene View Post
      I'm looking forward to that.

      I'll probably start packing this weekend if I get some time alone at home. I don't really feel comfortable packing in front of him--I don't know, seems kind of cruel.
      Nah; cruel would be swinging by Colorado on the way to CA to do a bunch of hiking and hot tubbing, and putting it all on Facebook.

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      • #63
        Originally posted by Mr. Anthony View Post
        Nah; cruel would be swinging by Colorado on the way to CA to do a bunch of hiking and hot tubbing, and putting it all on Facebook.

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        i don't know what y'all heard about me... i'm a motherf'ing P.I.M.P...

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        • #64
          Originally posted by Mr. Anthony View Post
          Nah; cruel would be swinging by Colorado on the way to CA to do a bunch of hiking and hot tubbing, and putting it all on Facebook.

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          Originally posted by not on the rug View Post
          i don't know what y'all heard about me... i'm a motherf'ing P.I.M.P...
          Lol!

          So update: Last night, I was on the phone with a friend from college. He's a public defender in CA, and I was asking him for career advice. We were on the phone for a while, but so what, you know. Anyway, after a while, my bf came upstairs and started bothering me. He got right in my face and tried to distract me from the phone conversation. He always does this when I'm on the phone with friends. I mean, just how psycho and immature is that? And this is after I already told him that I'm moving to CA so I've practically broken up with him already.

          Well, I guess it was a good thing cuz it just reminded me of why I need to get away from him. (And to think that I was feeling bad/sad about breaking up!)

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          • #65
            It's better to lose a lover than to love a loser.

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            • #66
              Originally posted by diene View Post
              Lol!

              So update: Last night, I was on the phone with a friend from college. He's a public defender in CA, and I was asking him for career advice. We were on the phone for a while, but so what, you know. Anyway, after a while, my bf came upstairs and started bothering me. He got right in my face and tried to distract me from the phone conversation. He always does this when I'm on the phone with friends. I mean, just how psycho and immature is that? And this is after I already told him that I'm moving to CA so I've practically broken up with him already.

              Well, I guess it was a good thing cuz it just reminded me of why I need to get away from him. (And to think that I was feeling bad/sad about breaking up!)
              sounds super insecure. how old are you guys?

              Originally posted by Mr. Anthony View Post
              It's better to lose a lover than to love a loser.

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              • #67
                I'm 31, and he's 42.

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                • #68
                  Originally posted by diene View Post
                  I'm 31, and he's 42.
                  aha.. insecure older man syndrome. sucks for him

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                  • #69
                    Originally posted by diene View Post
                    Do you think his control issues can be fixed?
                    Only by him, and only if he wants to.
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                    • #70
                      Originally posted by PBNewby View Post
                      Only by him, and only if he wants to.
                      yeah, and he'll only want to if there are consequences to his actions. like his younger girlfriend leaving him and moving back to california.
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                      • #71
                        Originally posted by RichMahogany View Post
                        yeah, and he'll only want to if there are consequences to his actions. like his younger girlfriend leaving him and moving back to california, with a tryst in Colorado en route.
                        Fixed it. And no, he won't change. Just a heads-up.

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                        • #72
                          Let me see if I understand this correctly. You know you should break up with someone if you want to take a trip to Colorado to have sex with Mr. Anthony.

                          What if you don't want to break up with someone, but would still like a one nighter with Mr. Anthony?
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                          • #73
                            Originally posted by Mr. Anthony View Post
                            Fixed it.
                            Precisely what I had in mind. But you owe me one.
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                            • #74
                              Originally posted by JoanieL View Post
                              What if you don't want to break up with someone, but would still like a one nighter with Mr. Anthony?
                              Aren't there 2 other threads about that already going?

                              BTW Joanie, send me a PM, I'll give you Mr. A's address.
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                              • #75
                                Yeah, I was just going to say--if you don't want to break up but still want a one nighter with Mr. A, you should go to one of the other threads.

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