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  • #91
    I agree TFC, you don't deserve that.

    Any way you can change your phone number/get a burn phone temporarily?

    I'd hug you if I could.

    Don't text her back. Stay strong.
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    • #92
      if you reply to her i will purple nurple you til you cry uncle
      beautiful
      yeah you are

      Baby if you time travel back far enough you can avoid that work because the dust won't be there. You're too pretty to be working that hard.
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      • #93
        Originally posted by bloodorchid View Post
        if you reply to her i will purple nurple you til you cry uncle
        WTF is a purple nurple ???????
        And I will tweak your deak ???? not sure what that means - but red wine makes me quite poetic...... and I will give you a big Gwamma hug !!!!!
        "never let the truth get in the way of a good story "

        ...small steps....

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        • #94
          et voila!

          Urban Dictionary: purple nurple
          beautiful
          yeah you are

          Baby if you time travel back far enough you can avoid that work because the dust won't be there. You're too pretty to be working that hard.
          lol

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          • #95
            some people really don't know what they want or don't want, etc.

            your best bet is to simply finish it. "Throw away the things; keep the chest; stop contacting me." And then ignore after that.

            If you've already said those things to her, then keep ignoring, and block the texts, remove from FB, etc.

            My friend is going through a breakup and her ex is doing a push-pull thing too. It's highly reactive behavior. She finally laid the boundary and then stuck to it. It's the only thing you can do.

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            • #96
              sounds like she wants drama, attention, to have you beg or all three.

              Don't reply. Stay strong or the mixed messages will continue.

              (and yeah it hurts, thats why its best not to prolong it, but...hugs)

              Edit: just realised I missed a page and you did reply re belongings. DON'T REPLY. She has no right to fock you around like this, it is not fair.
              Last edited by katemary; 10-15-2012, 04:36 AM.

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              • #97
                Originally posted by TheFastCat View Post
                Sorry for the continued drama...

                Got a text today:

                "I would very much like to talk to you"

                this is after six days of nothing. The last text she sent which I didn't respond to was

                "Thanks, TFC that means a lot. I hope you are doing well too. This is all very difficult and I don't want to make anything more difficult. It's hard not talking to you."


                WHAT THE FUCK.
                I Haven't reciprocated contact I haven't even initiated it. Here she is initiating it... what am I to think> WHat is natural to think? Is she setting me up to crush my heart again? It isn't fair. I haven't said anything since she broke it off why would she initiate contact to break it again?????

                I don't deserve this

                As an older woman with much experience under her belt with this kind of stuff she's pulling the classic "I don't want you but I want YOU to want me" bullshit. Nip it in the bud right now. What's happening is she can't bear the thought of you not sitting in a puddle of tears pining away for her so she's trying to force the issue. In other words, she's being a dramatic bitch. If you respond in any way other than total silence or a curt "What's done is done, let's both move on". she will continue to drag it out until she gets an emotional response and then she'll rip your heart out of your chest all over again. It will not end well, let me tell you. And just to clarify, yes, I'm a woman but I've NEVER pulled that nonsense on a man, however, more of my female friends have done that than not and I find it repulsive.

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                • #98
                  Originally posted by ZenGopher View Post
                  As an older woman with much experience under her belt with this kind of stuff she's pulling the classic "I don't want you but I want YOU to want me" bullshit. Nip it in the bud right now. What's happening is she can't bear the thought of you not sitting in a puddle of tears pining away for her so she's trying to force the issue. In other words, she's being a dramatic bitch. If you respond in any way other than total silence or a curt "What's done is done, let's both move on". she will continue to drag it out until she gets an emotional response and then she'll rip your heart out of your chest all over again. It will not end well, let me tell you. And just to clarify, yes, I'm a woman but I've NEVER pulled that nonsense on a man, however, more of my female friends have done that than not and I find it repulsive.
                  Very well said and I agree. I have also witnessed lots of women do this. It is cruel. She is expecting drama and for you to beg and because you haven't given it, she is attempting to incite it. If it helps, this may be making her doubt herself. I don't mean to suggest you will end up together, I mean get some satisfaction that your lack of reaction is affecting her. It is a very old game, don't give in.

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                  • #99
                    "I would very much like to talk to you"
                    She has a right to text you, you have a right to ignore it. You are under no obligation to reply.

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                    • By the way, my husband had an affair with a younger woman. The texts, emails and facebook BS went on for a good 12 months. He never replied and was open with me about her contacting him. She also contacted me through facebook. A lot of it was drunk bullshit, guilt trips, manipulation. He finally blocked her on Facebook.

                      Just, uhhh, be prepared.

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                      • Originally posted by TheFastCat View Post
                        Sorry for the continued drama...

                        Got a text today:

                        "I would very much like to talk to you"

                        this is after six days of nothing. The last text she sent which I didn't respond to was

                        "Thanks, TFC that means a lot. I hope you are doing well too. This is all very difficult and I don't want to make anything more difficult. It's hard not talking to you."


                        WHAT THE FUCK.
                        I Haven't reciprocated contact I haven't even initiated it. Here she is initiating it... what am I to think> WHat is natural to think? Is she setting me up to crush my heart again? It isn't fair. I haven't said anything since she broke it off why would she initiate contact to break it again?????

                        I don't deserve this
                        Hi, I've been reading most of your posts and I feel your pain. I, too am going through a similar situation. My ex tried to contact me this way too. All I can say is keep your distance and just don't talk to them. I can respect that it can be hard for the person doing the heart breaking as well. So this can be quite confusing for the person (you) with the broken heart. I found myself asking, "are they interested in me again? does he want me back?". But in the end, he didn't. But seriously, don't contact them. You need the distance to heal.

                        Oh and by the way, I found some really helpful advice/insight from this thread to help me through my own pain. So thank you.
                        Last edited by Ellie_Miller; 10-15-2012, 07:21 AM.

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                        • How long were you together and what age (ish) are you both?

                          Magnolia - wow, that's awful. So when she couldn't get his attention she lashed out to tell you? That must have been hard to hear about the affair, but did her carry on make it easier to side with him when she contacted you? ouch.

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                          • Originally posted by Daemonized View Post
                            I'll repeat advice given to me once. Dry your eyes on another woman's skirt.
                            This one is the best idea to cure the unseen wounds and you will really feel delighted after a week and don't ever emotionally attached to any one just enjoy them and ******.

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                            • Bacon. Eat more bacon.

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                              • I took her face with me to archery, imagined it on the target and shot her eyes out. Best shooting I have done in years. It was cathartic and really made me feel better without actually hurting anyone, poisoning myself with chemicals or waking up hungover next to a woman you dont remember who got pregnant from that one time and haunts your life with child support and hatred, again.....

                                Cut them off, cut them out, get out of your home and see other people on the street, walk and live well knowing she could have had this as well but was too stupid to see the possibilities and laugh out loud suddenly about it.

                                Random sex is not a solution though it feels good at the moment and hurting her for real in many various ways is just bad Karma that will bite you in the ass when you dont need it.
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