I don't see what is so awesome about being so judgmental.
I think above all, being fat is an outward sign of bad nutrition. I have been fat and in two places.... at 300lbs, I was fat because I ate crap we all know is crap and didn't exercise. I wore that and people were mean. We justify it by saying its about health, but no one was mean to the binge drinkers or smokers or the ones that vomited up foods, not mean to the disabled. Unfortunately, fat is like wearing sign that says "I'm out of control and treat my body like a dumpster". It makes me annoyed to see people not responsible for their health. It makes me mad to think people just shovel crap into their kids.
The problem with fat is that its not that cut and dry. I was also a 200 plus pound marathoner, vegetarian. I still had to wear my sign that says "I'm out of control and treat my body like a dumpster". And people like Gilleh see me and say what an irresponsible idiot.
It's weird and as I get slimmer, I am treated better and better and it occurs to me, it is 100% my appearance and not my worth as a person in terms of intelligence, kindness etc. that elicits better treatment. People are nice to me because I am a cute blonde with a nice rack and little waist. People listen to me in meetings because I fit in the chair nicely and can cross my legs.
Truth be told, 5 years ago I was a better person. I volunteered. I exercised more (OK, arguable on Primal site. but). I had more friends that I helped more. I worked harder at work. I was less catty. Now people are nicer to me. ?
Fat people are really defensive