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    Having the UFC fight tomorrow night.....7 men coming over to watch it (most of them I have trained with). My fiance will not be there as she could care less and does not want to be around that much Testosterone yelling at a TV. One friend wants to bring is girlfriend over to the event. She will be the only girl if she comes. I have stated this to him and he is not getting it at all and it got to the point where I told him she can't come.

    Is there a problem with a guy's night?

    Is this just part of the pussification of men as this is not the first time something like this has happend to me with guys.

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    That dude's whupped if he can't leave his girlfriend for a little while to have a man-night. Is he stupid or something?
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    • #3
      No, that's completely reasonable, and your right.
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      • #4
        as a girl, i wouldn't want to go and be the only girl unless i wanted to watch the fight too

        so no, you aren't being an ass to not want awkwardness
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        • #5
          No, there is absolutely no problem with a guy's night. This coming from a woman. I encourage this, just as girls need girl's nights. It's good for both. That said, if the girl in question is the type that fits right in with the yelling, swearing and other guys stuff and everyone was fine with her being there then inclusion isn't necessarily about pussification. But, your house, your rules, no girls allowed means no girls allowed. You aren't being an ass saying so.
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          • #6
            If she's really into UFC and is totally comfortable around boys acting like boys, then you should let her come. Some women are cool like that you know. If she or he are just in love and want to spend every moment together holding hands and making goo-goo eyes, you are totally in the right. Women are very comfortable shutting guys out when they want to, guys should be too.
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            • #7
              You're absolutely right. I mean it would be worse if you had to ask him to leave during the fight should all that testosterone turn him on & he starts getting it on with his girl. It happens. Right?
              Just tell him "Look, dude. I love ya, but NO CHICKS!"
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              • #8
                Originally posted by Dr. Bork Bork View Post
                You're absolutely right. I mean it would be worse if you had to ask him to leave during the fight should all that testosterone turn him on & he starts getting it on with his girl. It happens. Right?
                Just tell him "Look, dude. I love ya, but NO CHICKS!"
                i can't tell you how many times i've had to be escorted out of businesses for just that reason
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                • #9
                  Originally posted by Blackcatbone View Post
                  No, there is absolutely no problem with a guy's night. This coming from a woman. I encourage this, just as girls need girl's nights. It's good for both. That said, if the girl in question is the type that fits right in with the yelling, swearing and other guys stuff and everyone was fine with her being there then inclusion isn't necessarily about pussification. But, your house, your rules, no girls allowed means no girls allowed. You aren't being an ass saying so.

                  That is the excuse he is trying to convey is that she "is a fan of UFC" the problem is that it is false as she doesn't know a thing about UFC at all.

                  If she does come she will sit in a corner and just try to suck face with my bro and he will be all cuddly and quiet as the other guy's in the room "rage" in a very primal way!!!

                  The reality is that he won't come because I didn't invite his woman for a guy's night I throw out opportunites for him and it just fails. I invite them over as a couple all the time so i just don't see the problem here but it is out there for him as I think he is a little bit "whipped"

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                  • #10
                    Originally posted by Darwin17 View Post
                    The reality is that he won't come because I didn't invite his woman for a guy's night I throw out opportunites for him and it just fails. I invite them over as a couple all the time so i just don't see the problem here but it is out there for him as I think he is a little bit "whipped"
                    Yeah, he sounds whipped and maybe a bit like he doesn't fit in with the "guys night" either.
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                    • #11
                      Originally posted by Darwin17 View Post
                      That is the excuse he is trying to convey is that she "is a fan of UFC" the problem is that it is false as she doesn't know a thing about UFC at all.

                      If she does come she will sit in a corner and just try to suck face with my bro and he will be all cuddly and quiet as the other guy's in the room "rage" in a very primal way!!!

                      The reality is that he won't come because I didn't invite his woman for a guy's night I throw out opportunites for him and it just fails. I invite them over as a couple all the time so i just don't see the problem here but it is out there for him as I think he is a little bit "whipped"
                      They must not have been together long. Let the newness wear off, aka the sex stops, and he'll want to hang out with the menfolk again. I would deny his efforts to rejoin the men as a lesson for his whuppedness.
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                      • #12
                        If it were me and I had declared a guy's night, I would not allow a friend to bring his girlfriend and I would probably lose respect for one that felt the need to ask. I also don't ever crash my girlfriend's girl's nights either.
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                        • #13
                          Um, I think a room full of testosterone yelling at a UFC fight would be kinda hot, but that's just me I don't know jack about UFC, but I'd also know better than to be a total buzzkill like it sounds like she would be.

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                          • #14
                            Originally posted by drssgchic View Post
                            Um, I think a room full of testosterone yelling at a UFC fight would be kinda hot, but that's just me
                            sounds like a fun night! that said, what part of "guy's night" doesn't he get? GUY'S night. pretty simple.
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                            • #15
                              He'll get over it eventually. I presume this is a new girlfriend? I've been there, people get clingy and gooey in new relationships. If it's because his girlfriend is just a controlling person who doesn't want him out of her sight, well, then you've got bigger problems. But otherwise it's pretty normal and you just need to let him come back to you in his own time.
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