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  • Originally posted by Danielfire View Post
    and a bunch of guys at the station looking over my shoulder agree! If you want to date Sydney firemen, lol!
    Well, how many of them are big dudes who are covered in thick man-fur from head to toe? You can give those guys the thumbs up for me.

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    • Uhhh... Gravyboat.... holy curves. Get used to attention. Seriously- someone posted some shots on here of some curvy models looking hot- you plus professional photog= those women. And your face is seriously pretty too. But yeah, shape... you have it.

      I think above all men are attracted to shape and proportion. Most of the time overweight people are shapeless. You may have junk, but its in the right places.

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      • Originally posted by magnolia1973 View Post
        Uhhh... Gravyboat.... holy curves. Get used to attention. Seriously- someone posted some shots on here of some curvy models looking hot- you plus professional photog= those women. And your face is seriously pretty too. But yeah, shape... you have it.
        Thanks, Magnolia. I used to think idly about plus size modelling, but I was too big then (the models are usually like size 12-16 at most and I was wearing a 24). Now I have the right size, but I still can't do it because I'd have to shave my legs and I don't want to. Lol..

        You may have junk, but its in the right places.
        *thoughtful pause*

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        • LOL.... junk is not the best all purpose term is it....

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          • Originally posted by canio6 View Post
            Well, to be a dick for a moment...

            You are attractive, and as kenn mentioned have an excellent face. Seriously you are very pretty. That said, as you mention you have 50 pounds to lose (nothing wrong with that many of us do) Now, lets assume I am a creepy dude. I want to hook up. Most women will tell me to take a hike. Then suddenly I see a pretty yet overweight girl. Huh, she is overweight, she probably has some self-esteem issues (many overweight people do). Wait a moment! I may actually have a chance here!

            So skeeviness starts.

            My guess is that if you continue on your current path you will go from pretty to downright smokin' hot (in the conventional way which seems to say overweight people cannot be hot). At which point you will still get attention but from people you want attention from. Creepy old dudes will know they have no chance because smokin' hot chicks have self esteem

            (Yes, people make stupid assumptions. It is what stupid people do)
            This honest feedback really makes me think. Thank you.

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            • What am I missing?

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              • Originally posted by canio6 View Post
                Well, to be a dick for a moment...

                You are attractive, and as kenn mentioned have an excellent face. Seriously you are very pretty. That said, as you mention you have 50 pounds to lose (nothing wrong with that many of us do) Now, lets assume I am a creepy dude. I want to hook up. Most women will tell me to take a hike. Then suddenly I see a pretty yet overweight girl. Huh, she is overweight, she probably has some self-esteem issues (many overweight people do). Wait a moment! I may actually have a chance here!

                So skeeviness starts.

                My guess is that if you continue on your current path you will go from pretty to downright smokin' hot (in the conventional way which seems to say overweight people cannot be hot). At which point you will still get attention but from people you want attention from. Creepy old dudes will know they have no chance because smokin' hot chicks have self esteem

                (Yes, people make stupid assumptions. It is what stupid people do)
                OMG, I never thought of this angle, but I think you nailed it! Well said!

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                • There's a scene in the movie Sideways when Thomas Hayden Church (the voice actor) hits on the overweight waitress at the steakhouse, later saying to Paul Giamatti that overweight girls were better because they were "grateful, ya know?". Yikes!
                  5'0" female, 45 years old. Started Primal October 31, 2011, at a skinny fat 111.5 lbs. Low weight: 99.5 lb on a fast. Gained back to 115(!) on SAD chocolate, potato chips, and stress. Currently 111.

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                  • Originally posted by oxide View Post
                    overweight girls were better because they were "grateful, ya know?"
                    ...... The sad part is that there are SO many dudes who really think this. They've hit on me and been completely blatant about it. "Come on, you're a fatty, you'll never get to be with an alpha like me again." GEE, SO TEMPTING. HMMMM.

                    The even sadder part is that a lot of girls really are grateful for shitty treatment by the dregs of society.

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                    • Originally posted by Gravyboat View Post
                      ...... The sad part is that there are SO many dudes who really think this. They've hit on me and been completely blatant about it. "Come on, you're a fatty, you'll never get to be with an alpha like me again." GEE, SO TEMPTING. HMMMM.

                      The even sadder part is that a lot of girls really are grateful for shitty treatment by the dregs of society.
                      oh dear lord. sometimes i'm astounded by what an early marriage saved me from.
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                      • be afraid, be very afraid.. of the dating scene
                        beautiful
                        yeah you are

                        Baby if you time travel back far enough you can avoid that work because the dust won't be there. You're too pretty to be working that hard.
                        lol

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                        • Well guys, this is a New shirtless pic of me

                          Let me know if you think it's attractive on a primal level
                          Starting Date: Dec 18, 2010
                          Starting Weight: 294 pounds
                          Current Weight: 235 pounds
                          Goal Weight: 195 pounds

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                          • Originally posted by Saoirse View Post
                            oh dear lord. sometimes i'm astounded by what an early marriage saved me from.
                            Originally posted by bloodorchid View Post
                            be afraid, be very afraid.. of the dating scene
                            All too true... and one of the reasons that I'm happily 'happily married' to the husband.
                            I used to get a lot of the guys who just walk right up to you like taking you home is already a done deal... Ummm. NO! You fail. I'd really always rather go home alone and DIY than deal with that sort of fella.

                            I'm very glad to not be in the dating pool...
                            “You have your way. I have my way. As for the right way, the correct way, and the only way, it does not exist.”
                            ~Friedrich Nietzsche
                            And that's why I'm here eating HFLC Primal/Paleo.

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                            • Originally posted by Gravyboat View Post
                              ...... The sad part is that there are SO many dudes who really think this. They've hit on me and been completely blatant about it. "Come on, you're a fatty, you'll never get to be with an alpha like me again." GEE, SO TEMPTING. HMMMM.

                              The even sadder part is that a lot of girls really are grateful for shitty treatment by the dregs of society.
                              This is scary....and sad.

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                              • I like twiggy, blonde, nerdy guys. Someone who can fix my computer, watch Doctor Who, and go primal with me still.

                                Parts of this thread make me very appreciative of my husband.

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