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  • #46
    Originally posted by PrimalPam View Post
    dado is now on "ignore" for me.
    I think he's almost reached "invisible" status around here.

    But I keep him, for entertainment purposes.
    Durp.

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    • #47
      Originally posted by RitaRose View Post
      I think he's almost reached "invisible" status around here.

      But I keep him, for entertainment purposes.
      xoxo

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      • #48
        Originally posted by Owly View Post
        So sorry you're having to deal with this. No matter what's going on in a relationship, a person deserves better than a breakup text from their spouse. A few years ago, I had a similar experience with a longterm live-in partner--no text message because it was before it was common, so I came home to a note on the pillow. I remember feeling horribly shocked, wondering what happened and why and having no way to even talk about what had happened.

        I hope that you can take the time and space to grieve. Please don't sit and pick yourself apart over why you did or didn't deserve this. Sometimes relationships don't work out, and that doesn't mean that you are to blame or are a bad partner. Down the road when you have a little distance, it's worthwhile to reflect on things and examine why something might have happened, but for now, I hope you can just focus on surviving this and deciding what you want to do next.

        Thanks Owly.. I really appreciate everyone's kind words!

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        • #49
          Originally posted by The Big L View Post
          Because you didn't read the whole thread, you don't realize just how right you are.
          This made me laugh out loud! ahahaha thanks!

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          • #50
            Things are better for me right now. Have stayed paleo and continue to crossfit 5-6 times a week. I have found an amazing Crossfit affiliate that is 1 block from the beach. I have realized that not everything is bad. I'm focusing on myself because I'm not ever going to let someone bring my whole world down. You can break my heart but I'm still going to take care of me and for at least 1 hour a day while I'm lifting heavy shit I will forget the whole rest of the world.

            So all in all, I'm ok...better than I thought I'd be. BUT (the big but) I am heading back "home" (my old home) next Tuesday-Thursday to pack up my life... I have no idea what kinds of emotions I'll feel. Guessing all of them..

            Thanks for checking in and thank ALL of you for your support.

            PrimalPam- you hang in there too! Keep doing what you're doing.

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            • #51
              Perhaps its in bad taste, but this reminded me of this thread: TEXT MESSAGE BREAKUP - YouTube

              Hope you're not offended by this Kat!! <3 Just so ridiculous I wanted to share it...

              To skip to the most relevant part, start at 2:50.
              My Before/After Pics
              Are you new here? Be sure to check these links FIRST, before reading anything on the forum! Succeed & PB 101

              "I am a work in progress." -Ani DiFranco

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              • #52
                A similar experience just happened to someone that I know. Demonstrates a lack of general decency and maturity. I've learned in life that the universe has a way of looking after you. Just breathe deeply --- get up every morning and eat properly and exercise. Believe in the fact that the universe is protecting you from this person and that there is something or someone far, far greater for you. Just keep breathing.
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                F, 48, 5'10"
                Start Date: 25-06-12 @ 161lbs
                Goal Reached: 30-09-12 @ 143lb. Now bouncing between 145lb - 149lb. I'd like less bounce and more consistency :-)

                Started Cross Fit 20.12.12 ---- Can't wait to submit my success story on the 1st anniversary of starting primal.

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                • #53
                  I'm so sorry. It's rotten and inexplicable and mind-numbing and unbelievable. I'm glad you have parents to go to as a safe haven. And impressed you are sticking with primal and doing crossfit.

                  All you can do at this point is try to get through each day. I wish the healing would speed up. It doesn't help, I know, but thank goodness you have no children and 'though I don't know him or you, what a stupid, irresponsible, selfish b*****d he must be. You deserve better.
                  SW: 243
                  CW: 177
                  Goal: Health

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                  • #54
                    shit, man. i didn't read the thread, but i want to take this opportunity to make it about myself.

                    i'm engaged and it is rocky, this woman is out of control, i think a psycopath, so barring some change i think this will end the relationship.

                    the problem started because when we first met i was a weak little bitch, but i grew in strength, both physical and spiritual, over time. and now, i function from a position of strength but i have let the woman walk all over me way too much and she feels free to.

                    it's tough, ending an 8+ year relationship, but sometimes it has to be done.

                    i am with you through this and you are with me, may god bless us all.

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                    • #55
                      Originally posted by The Return of Dado View Post
                      shit, man. i didn't read the thread, but i want to take this opportunity to make it about myself.

                      i'm engaged and it is rocky, this woman is out of control, i think a psycopath, so barring some change i think this will end the relationship.

                      the problem started because when we first met i was a weak little bitch, but i grew in strength, both physical and spiritual, over time. and now, i function from a position of strength but i have let the woman walk all over me way too much and she feels free to.

                      it's tough, ending an 8+ year relationship, but sometimes it has to be done.

                      i am with you through this and you are with me, may god bless us all.
                      Send her a text.

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                      • #56
                        Originally posted by DarthFriendly View Post
                        Send her a text.
                        hahahaha, yea, "im out 2 canada, peace bitch"

                        because i think canada is how far i will have to go to escape the fallout.

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                        • #57
                          Originally posted by DarthFriendly
                          If you think she's psycho now just wait until after you dump her after 8 years.
                          yea, it's going to be a fun summer.

                          i escaped war as a child and now i am preparing for another one.

                          but what can we do? sometimes you will learn the hard way.

                          some things must be done.

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                          • #58
                            Originally posted by DarthFriendly
                            You got a lady and you want her gone/ But you ain't got the guts?

                            ...for a fee I willing to be your back door man...

                            AC/DC - Dirty deeds done dirt cheap with lyrics - YouTube
                            i remember this true crime show i saw when i was doing my bid, this college student used his yellow jeep to axe his parents to death so that he will collect the life insurance.

                            your back door is not safe around me.

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                            • #59
                              Originally posted by Credodisi View Post
                              In time, you will get through this and will find happiness again. But it does take time. The best advice i have for you is to take care of yourself, eat well, workout.
                              Excellent advise. Focus on you. You'll be happy again one day

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