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  • Originally posted by Pedidoc View Post
    Hi I'm soon to be 51 and have lost 30 pounds with CW last year, but am now stalled. I would like to loose 30 more to get to a realistic weight for my age and 5'4". I've been lurking and reading this thread and love the support and encouragement I see and would love to join. I work from home all but two days a week, travel pretty much monthly for 7-14 days at a time, have a hard time getting enough energy to excercise, and am going to school. I'm premenopausal, but take librel so as to not deal with vicious mood swings and migraines. I've switched to almond or coconut milk in my coffee primarily because dairy increases my asthma issues. I take a multi-vitamin, magnesium, vitamin D3, and B12 for supplements. I'm in the habit of tracking what I eat, but look forward to skipping that task. Any advice on diet (I've got most of the books and cookbooks) and excercise (my downfall) is appreciated.
    Pedidoc! Welcome to the thread. Looks like you and I have some things in common - I too am 51, 5' 3" and just passing through the Big M. I'm currently at 188 - goal is 140, and then I'll re-evaluate.

    I'm wondering if your taking enough vit. D3 - I was told by my doc to take 2000 units a day, then my labs showed I was very low so she upped it to 4000 units. I also take a very high B complex supplement. I have fibromyalgia, so that attributes to my fatigue - but the supplements make a big difference as long as I remember to be vigilent in taken them.

    I'm a tracker - down to the last bite of dark chocolate. Its the only way I can be sure I'm on track and not going over calories. Primal eating is not about counting calories - for someone who doesn't need to lose weight - but for the those of us who do - calories matter. It still comes down to energy in vs. energy out. We can be eating all the right things, but eating more than we can burn and that means we won't lose an ounce. I'm also looking forward to not having to track - but until I'm at my goal I will continue.

    As for exercise - do some reading on Marks advice for how and when to move "primally". You really don't have to go to a gym or have any fancy equipment at home. Lunges, squats, push-ups (girly ones are A ok!) and find something heavy to lift or move once a week and you've got it down. PLAY time is important - do things you enjoy and do them often! My husband and I recently took up biking. I hadn't been able to bike for 10 years due to the fibromyalgia pain and fatigue - but changing my diet to the primal foods, and eliminating the inflamatory foods has changed all that. As a child I always felt such freedom on a bicycle! I still feel the joy and freedom and getting on my bike and just GOING!! Its FUN! Its exercise - and its play! We are also taking up some short (4 mile) day hikes. Weather is a factor of course - we live in Oregon - but spring is coming! And we have our books on hiking trails on the coffee table!

    I have decided to ignore most if not all of the advice on MDA from the male population - as it rarely works the same for us - hence the reason for starting this threat. I had done the macronutrient balance thing that most guys say works for them - 50% protein, 30% fat and 20% carbs. I didn't lose a pound in months! I read a post by Pebbles67 where she balances her grams - so I decided to give it a try. 80 grams protein, 80 grams fat, and 80 grams carbs. With total calories being 1360. Mind you, that is the GOAL - and so for the past week I've tried to stay as close as possible to that balance. Results? I've lost 5 pounds this week! (thanks, Pebbles67 for the tip!!!!) To translate that into calories it would be 360 protein, 360 carbs and 720 fat. To be honest I don't think in the past week I have hit that much fat - and I mostly go over a bit on the protein. But the carbs I'm pretty careful about staying within my limits. I WAS eating bacon and eggs for breakfast EVERYDAY - and I've cut out that. Just too much fat I think. Nuts are limited to only 1 oz and not every day.

    It takes a while to find your "sweet spot" for losing. I'm hoping I've found mine - but if I find this isn't working then I'll continue to tweak until I find the right combination. I was hoping to get to goal by my birthday in July..... but I don't think thats going to happen now. I still have 48 pounds to go - and only 16 weeks left. But I will be closer than I am now and thats a good thing!

    Stay the course - and let us all help you with the journey! Welcome aboard!
    1. Love ME no matter what noises are screaming at me, or who is trying to tear me down.
    2. Eat to heal
    3. Move to live
    4. Embrace today
    5. Live with intention
    6. Respect my body
    7. Cultivate joy
    8. Find my passion
    9. Meditate on peace in my soul

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    • Originally posted by drheather View Post
      Is it really necessary to be a jerk? This is exactly why this thread exists,,,guys like you who think you know it all.
      who are you referring to? If you click "reply with quote" it will help us all to follow........ If you're referring to bosnic --- well, we've all pretty much ignored him. I think he just likes to "stir the pot" but if he doesn't get the attention he needs I think he'll go away.
      1. Love ME no matter what noises are screaming at me, or who is trying to tear me down.
      2. Eat to heal
      3. Move to live
      4. Embrace today
      5. Live with intention
      6. Respect my body
      7. Cultivate joy
      8. Find my passion
      9. Meditate on peace in my soul

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      • Originally posted by zoebird View Post
        hi, don't know if you are spam or not, but the guy (anthony) above you is a spam bot, and the one below as well). They might be deleted by the time you read this, though. . . so.
        Yes, looks like the one I was referring to was deleted. Sorry for the confusion, just tired of seeing snarky male comments on this board. It DOES work different for us and there is nothing wrong with discussing that as a group!

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        • Thanks Tomi! I will look at increasing my vitamin D3. I will try the 80-80-80 plan and start moving. I'm in Texas, so think hot humid yuck outside. I used to love riding bikes when I lived up north, but not so much now. I started at 198, am now 166, and would like to hit the 140s. I've gone from a size 16-18 to a loose 12, tight 10. I think it will help to have cyber buddies to help me stay on track.
          Female 55
          Starting wt: 198, Goal: 135, Current with PB: 165
          Started at a size 16 down to loose 10

          With PB my asthma has improved, low back pain is gone, & I've got more energy

          My Primal Journal: http://www.marksdailyapple.com/forum/thread60175.html

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          • Originally posted by Pedidoc View Post
            Thanks Tomi! I will look at increasing my vitamin D3. I will try the 80-80-80 plan and start moving. I'm in Texas, so think hot humid yuck outside. I used to love riding bikes when I lived up north, but not so much now. I started at 198, am now 166, and would like to hit the 140s. I've gone from a size 16-18 to a loose 12, tight 10. I think it will help to have cyber buddies to help me stay on track.
            Yes thank you tomi..i will be trying this also
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            To Forgive Is Canine

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            • I no longer believe the story of calories in, calories out except when one totally over does it. I do believe that my years of starvation in an attempt to stop the weight gain - around the 1400 calories or less - did me a whole lot of damage that has taken years to repair.

              I used to have ME/CFS/fibromyalgia and at one stage was the worst case my specialist had seen. I finally managed to get someone to prescribe me some natural thyroid and that made an immediate and huge difference despite all doctors insisting that I didn't meet the TSH requirements. I now prefer Ecothyroid to Armour and it comes with the great benefit of not requiring a prescription. With it I don't put on weight with the higher caloric intake, I have developed a level of fitness which means that I can hold my own in karate class with most of the much younger students. I am no longer coping with being very cold all the time, my pain levels are normal and my terrible fatigue levels are a thing of the past. And my weight is dropping - even if much more slowly than I would like.

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              • Originally posted by AussieNana View Post
                I no longer believe the story of calories in, calories out except when one totally over does it. I do believe that my years of starvation in an attempt to stop the weight gain - around the 1400 calories or less - did me a whole lot of damage that has taken years to repair.
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                Yeah, that's my experience too. I even gained weight fasting - lol. The only weight loss I have experienced has happened when I was eating on or above my recommended maintenance calorie level. Otherwise it seems my metabolism is very responsive to a drop in energy intake (i.e. it drops at the same speed as the calorie intake). I'm reading Diana Schwarzbein's book about restoring your metabolism. It's perfectly achievable within PB, although she does recommend grains. Worth a read for those who are struggling with weight loss and who find calorie restriction is not working.
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                • Originally posted by jo View Post
                  Yeah, that's my experience too. I even gained weight fasting - lol.
                  Thank you for sharing this. I have been IF'ing by skipping breakfast for the past 2+ years and currently sit my heaviest weight- a weight I haven't been at in since highschool! (I'm 30yrs old). I think some women's (and probably men's) endocrine system is more sensitive to things like drastic calorie restriction and/or fasting.

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                  • Originally posted by NDF View Post
                    Thank you for sharing this. I have been IF'ing by skipping breakfast for the past 2+ years and currently sit my heaviest weight- a weight I haven't been at in since highschool! (I'm 30yrs old). I think some women's (and probably men's) endocrine system is more sensitive to things like drastic calorie restriction and/or fasting.
                    Schwarzbein says the fasting or skipping meals leads to a cascade of hormone imbalance. Bearing in mind she is talking to people with metabolic issues, IF might have health benefits for healthy people. Schwarzbein is an endocrinologist so she focusses on eating to balance hormones (plus lowering stress and improving sleep). I'm still half way through her book, but it sounds good to me. One rule is have protein, carb and fat at each meal. The problem is, people often gain weight on her programme to start with, which many of us will find difficult. She says "you need to get healthy to lose weight, not the other way round."
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                    • Jo, which Schwarzbein book are you reading?

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                      • From personal experience I now find it difficult to lose weight when I have inflammation and so much easier to do when I'm healthier.

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                        • Originally posted by NDF View Post
                          Jo, which Schwarzbein book are you reading?
                          The Schwarzbein Principle II: The Transition, but only because it was the only one in our library. I would have liked to read her first book because the reviews on Amazon were so amazing.
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                          • Hi Ladies..
                            I was wondering if anyone here bought the book The Primal Blueprint 21 Day Transformation. I just wanted to know is it more geared toward the men like most of the forum tpoics are...
                            To Err Is Human
                            To Forgive Is Canine

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                            • Originally posted by vanessa40 View Post
                              Hi Ladies..
                              I was wondering if anyone here bought the book The Primal Blueprint 21 Day Transformation. I just wanted to know is it more geared toward the men like most of the forum tpoics are...
                              I haven't bought it because I don't believe in miracles. 21 days? WTF?

                              Plus I expect it is geared towards the men!
                              F 5 ft 3. HW: 196 lbs. Primal SW (May 2011): 182 lbs (42% BF)... W June '12: 160 lbs (29% BF) (UK size 12, US size 8). GW: ~24% BF - have ditched the scales til I fit into a pair of UK size 10 bootcut jeans. Currently aligning towards 'The Perfect Health Diet' having swapped some fat for potatoes.

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                              • I know ..that what i was thinking too. I just wanted to know if anyone had any success with it. I have learned so much off the forum..i just didn't want to waste my money.. Thanks
                                To Err Is Human
                                To Forgive Is Canine

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                                My Journal
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                                SW~220
                                CW~136
                                GW-125

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