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  • I feel like some kind of rousing pre-battle type speach is called for, filled with lots of double meaning, keeep you pecker up, look before you leap, keep your powder dry, up the bum no babies, that kind of thing
    You know all those pictures of Adam and Eve where they have belly button? Think about it..................... take as long as you need........................

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    • Originally posted by Tribal Rob View Post
      I feel like some kind of rousing pre-battle type speach is called for, filled with lots of double meaning, keeep you pecker up, look before you leap, keep your powder dry, up the bum no babies, that kind of thing
      thanks bro!

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      • Originally posted by cori93437 View Post
        I admit, the male perspective on the F*buddy hunt is very different!
        Wow... re: Quelsen's post

        But then I guess my perspective as a female looking for a f*buddy wouldn't apply to guys on the hunt because that is completely skewed!
        Back when I was single and had buddies... well, lets just say that it wasn't a problem.

        My issue was that I eventually broke it off with two guys because they moved into the "wanting more" category.

        But... I NEVER presented to a guy as if I wanted to "date"... I always made it painfully clear it was a FWB situation ONLY right from the get go.

        I generally selected a guy that I sort of knew socially (this was before dating sites) that I knew I wouldn't want to really date but I had some chemistry with and who I got along with in other areas as friends/drinking/sports/motorcycles/ just general buddies. So not a dating site situation.

        As a woman I guess I come at the whole situation from a very different angle... I feel like no one should be misled in the situation. If a guy tells me upfront that he wants to "date" then after sex it's just f*buddy status that's some kinda bitch shit IMO.
        Date hols the connotation of trying to form a long term relationship.
        I think the lying part is bullshit.




        As a FWB f*buddy this is important... no need to be rude. You can totally have fun! It can even be long term.
        I had a guy as a FWB for over a year once... we both dated other people to see if we could find someone we really liked...
        But at the end of the night we both had someone to go to for great reliable wonderful guaranteed sex whether we had a dud date, no date, or whatever... where the other person knows all the buttons to push and is familiar and comfortable with the kink.

        It was a great relationship for what it was while it lasted...
        I don't think two people need to be in love to enjoy each others company and have fun, including sex.
        on a conventional dating site, tell the truth , on a sex site, lie or you get ignored.

        they are strange, everyone is supposed to be there for the same thing, the nasty, but most of the women there while actively having a profile refuse to admit they want the nasty, they have to be "blindsided" into it.

        in politics it is called plausible denial-ability
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        • Originally posted by katemary View Post
          In what way?

          Do you think guys on an adult site will have a different attitude to women carrying extra weight? On the one hand it should be about the sex, you can be with people you normally wouldn't be attracted to or hang out with. One the other hand, its all about the sex, maybe attractiveness is more important.

          Cori - sounds like you had a LOT of fun! Why the concern if it developed into something more? Sounds like a FWB arrangement, without all the usual stress of relationship stuff, is a great basis for developing something more.

          Tribal Rob - yeah. Do you think guys on sites that like would treat ladies like whores?

          I had "uncomplicated" fun with good male friends in my 20s, where neither of us was under any illusion it would lead to more, but actually going on a site for it is really giving me lots to think about!

          Rojo - 7 years either way if you are approaching someone. Who cares if they appoach you.

          Nope it is the other way around. bigger women on sex sites are more prone to be extremely shallow bitches who think that because they are putting out they get to climb the ladder about six rungs.
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          • Originally posted by quelsen View Post
            Nope it is the other way around. bigger women on sex sites are more prone to be extremely shallow bitches who think that because they are putting out they get to climb the ladder about six rungs.
            Awesome!
            Starting Date: Dec 18, 2010
            Starting Weight: 294 pounds
            Current Weight: 235 pounds
            Goal Weight: 195 pounds

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            • Originally posted by quelsen View Post
              Nope it is the other way around. bigger women on sex sites are more prone to be extremely shallow bitches who think that because they are putting out they get to climb the ladder about six rungs.
              ouch!

              These sites sound like places where negative views about women are amplified. I kinda hoped it would be a place where the usual shallow mind games and prejudices are left aside, but it sounds worse.

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              • cause god forbid some fat slut wants to be attracted to a guy before she fcks him, amirite?
                beautiful
                yeah you are

                Baby if you time travel back far enough you can avoid that work because the dust won't be there. You're too pretty to be working that hard.
                lol

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                • The moped analogy isn't wrong for most guys, I have to admit. And I've said throughout my life that the only difference between being fat and being thin is that I kiss a lot more frogs (as opposed to princes) when I'm thin. OTOH, I've noticed that men that are really secure in themselves - i.e., are comfortable with their incomes, their looks, etc., rarely give a rat's patootey whether they are with a pretty/thin girl/woman or not. The homelier or less successful a man, the more he cares what his friends think of "his woman."
                  "Right is right, even if no one is doing it; wrong is wrong, even if everyone is doing it." - St. Augustine

                  B*tch-lite

                  Who says back fat is a bad thing? Maybe on a hairy guy at the beach, but not on a crab.

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                  • Enjoy a movie.

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                    • Originally posted by bloodorchid View Post
                      cause god forbid some fat slut wants to be attracted to a guy before she fcks him, amirite?
                      This.

                      (but hoping slut used for ease of reference )

                      But also to think my weight puts me "six rungs down the ladder". Logically it must be true, but to hear it said so bluntly...

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                      • Sorry katemary but its only okay when a fat man wants to bang a woman he finds sexable. I dislike male mentality and am grateful my guy doesnt make me feel like shit.
                        beautiful
                        yeah you are

                        Baby if you time travel back far enough you can avoid that work because the dust won't be there. You're too pretty to be working that hard.
                        lol

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                        • I hear ya.

                          I think going on a site to explore my sexuality and find a FB to have fun with, whilst being overweight, has the potential to make me feel worse about myself! (a fun thrilling thought for the 2 days I entertained it)
                          Last edited by katemary; 11-19-2012, 12:50 AM. Reason: clarity

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                          • You two took his comments wrong

                            Stop projecting ffs
                            Starting Date: Dec 18, 2010
                            Starting Weight: 294 pounds
                            Current Weight: 235 pounds
                            Goal Weight: 195 pounds

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                            • So taken at face value, they were taken wrong. Welllll... if you say so. And katemary, go forth and explore, it'll be worth it for the stories you can tell the kids
                              beautiful
                              yeah you are

                              Baby if you time travel back far enough you can avoid that work because the dust won't be there. You're too pretty to be working that hard.
                              lol

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                              • You interpreted them wrong
                                Starting Date: Dec 18, 2010
                                Starting Weight: 294 pounds
                                Current Weight: 235 pounds
                                Goal Weight: 195 pounds

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