I really hope you can talk to Brad about all of this in person. As much as it can be easier to "get it all out" in writing, it makes it all too easy to be cruel. Tone is hard to convey. In couples therapy, the words you just used would be a perfect segue into telling him how you feel about what he said. While you can't change someone else or their feelings, just knowing that they UNDERSTAND how you feel can go a long way. It seems from his email that he is trying to communicate something to you and feels like it's not getting through. From what you write about here, it seems like you also don't feel understood. I hope you guys can get the support you need, either from each other or from a third party. Would you be open to couples therapy and do you think he would? It might help to get you guys moving in the same direction, at the very least, even if it was just a couple of sessions.
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