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  • Uh, oh! Just saw one on judg's journal! But you're right. They are less and less prevalent!

    The job situation is crazy. Seems to be getting worse. Young people and older people are really having a time of it. Sort of a panic in the air about it here.

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    • I hope beyond all hope that you or hubby find a job soon. I can't even imagine the stress you're feeling. And it really sucks that they're giving you that "you're too white for this job" look... What about waiting tables? I would look at a small diner or something. I can see chain restaurants giving you the same stare... or what about kitchen help in a hospital or something? Could you clean houses in your neighborhood? Maybe start a part time cleaning service? Just a thought. Good luck, sweetie.
      Primal since March 5, 2012
      SW: 221 | CW: 204 | LPW: 166 | UGW: 140 (80 lbs loss)



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      • I don't have any experience waiting tables, but I am applying for just about everything else. Well, not at the payday loan place. I consider them loan sharks. Will be digging through dumpsters and begging on the streets before I would work there. (Not that they are hiring, so my resolve doesn't need to be tested! )

        I have thought about passing out flyers for home help. Guess that will be next.

        Thanks for your good wishes.

        Just ate a mess of fried ground beef and onions, when what happens? The phone starts acting up. One ring, and it cuts out. We need to be able to get calls! Aargh!!! I am having an intense desire to shove the last pieces of carrot cake into my mouth.

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        • Caved.

          Carrot cake consumed.

          I went out and applied for jobs, and got a lead for one to apply for online. Had to ask my Honey for some help with getting my resume into the appropriate screen box, and he was a little terse. Got it done, but here I am, eating carrot cake. I ate chicken salad first. I can't decide: was that a valiant effort to stave things off, or just a futile attempt which equals more calories in my stomach?

          Oh, shoot, I don't really care.

          The phone is fixed, though.

          Tomorrow I will go and do an in-person follow-up.

          And there is no more carrot cake available.

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          • Why is it phones always go out when you need them -- responses from job apps., etc.?

            I think the carrot cake is not the end of the world. You have so much stress right now. Both of you being without work is scary. Really scary. And I know what you mean about being white. Sometimes it's like being a minority. I do hope you can find something good near you.

            Sending thoughts to both you and your husband. It would be great if he got a job first. Really can be hard on some guys if their partner is working and they aren't. Don't want to be in that position again, myself. Maybe, as students start back to school, there will be openings. Being a server is really hard; not that cleaning isn't. I cleaned for a boys' school for awhile. Talk about work. I mean....:-) Well, I'm sure you can imagine.

            Hang on in there. Gosh, primal IS / CAN BE expensive. I got some meat the other day, and I was thinking about something else. Wow! That was one lesson learned. Too bad peanuts or beans don't work as the main thing, as then it would be very much affordable. Ah, well. C'est la vie.

            What do you use mainly for meat when you're really budgeting?

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            • Keeping you in my prayers, Sabine.
              5'2", 55 years, Primal since April. Pre-Primal weight loss, from 216.6 to 157.8
              Primal low: 140.2 (Dec. 3) Goal weight: 135?
              Main Primal goal: beating back my CFS enough to function more normally and start writing again

              More and more, our life has been governed by specialists, who know too little of what lies outside their province to be able to know enough about what takes place within it.
              - Lewis Mumford

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              • Originally posted by Judg View Post
                Keeping you in my prayers, Sabine.
                Ditto that! I'm sure something good will happen soon! Keep your chin up!
                1. Love ME no matter what noises are screaming at me, or who is trying to tear me down.
                2. Eat to heal
                3. Move to live
                4. Embrace today
                5. Live with intention
                6. Respect my body
                7. Cultivate joy
                8. Find my passion
                9. Meditate on peace in my soul

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                • It only looks long because of the dialogue!

                  Thank you Lopisheep, Judg, and Tomi. Sometimes I imagine your wishes and prayers coming at me, like translucent ribbons, from the different parts of the continent, winding their way here to Texas, and then wrapping around me. It is good to know people are thinking of you. Makes me feel happy and calm.

                  I started by looking for cleaning work, because I wanted something active. I knew if I was sitting all day, it would make my general physical situation worse. I'm not bopping around constantly as it is, but I DO get up and move around, do chores, walk the dogs, whatnot. If I'm sitting for 6 hours, answering calls, my body will get unhappy. I don't even know if I can physically DO that anymore- I get achy if I sit too long.

                  Funny thing happened yesterday. I walked into a fast food restaurant. A gentleman held the door for me, I said my thank-yous, and he was behind me as I asked for an application at the counter. The manager said 'no'.

                  I was taken aback, and after my looks at the motels, I admit, I immediately thought, 'does she mean I can't work here, that they won't hire me just by looking at me?' (Guess I am getting a little touchy.) It took me a moment, but then I said, 'Do you mean you are out of them?'

                  'No.'

                  'So can I have one?'

                  'No.' But smiling, and nodding her head.

                  'Do you mean yes?'

                  'No.'

                  So now I think she is messing me, for whatever reason, maybe she has a quirky sense of humor. I started over.

                  'I'm not understanding. Do you have any applications?'

                  'No.'

                  'When will you get some in? I can come back.'

                  'No.'

                  Thank heavens at this point another employee came up, and said, 'We don't use paper applications anymore, but you can apply online.'

                  Thank you! Did she not understand what I was asking? Does she use 'no' interchangeably for 'yes', 'maybe', and 'good-bye'? Was she messing with me?

                  So, I am making my way out, feeling boggled at what should have been a pleasant three-second interaction, and had turned into a poorly scripted 'Who's on first', and the gentleman who held the door for me, asked if I was looking for work, and told me his company just down the street was hiring. Score! I scuttled home and applied -online. Haven't decided about the fast food place. Can I work with someone who uses 'no' like 'aloha'?

                  I got the email confirmation that the place received my application. Going to stop by today for a face to face follow-up. I always think it is better if they can attach a person to the piece of paper/email file. Is that going out of fashion nowadays?

                  Ground beef is my main budget protein go-to. I can catch it on sale for 99 cents a pound sometimes! Pus eggs. Got to love eggs.

                  After the carrot cake yesterday I had a banana as well, and some nuts, but managed to avoid a grilled-cheese sandwich and a PBJ. Ate a normal amount of dinner (sweet potato-corned beef hash, with a fried egg on top, yum! Littlest said she didn't want an egg on hers, and them proceeded to beg for bits of mine, so I had about half an egg.) and then stopped eating. Whew!

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                  • Face to face is ALWAYS good and shows you really are interested in the position! Best of luck!
                    SBF% 20.5
                    CBF% 20.0
                    Goal....14%

                    Muscle weighs more than fat and scales are evil.

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                    • Sabine, I really hope something comes up for both of you and I agree, face to face follow up is excellent! DH is being told all the time he should use social media more - but he does a lot of face to face marketing etc and the people always remember him and therefore call him. You become a face and are easier to remember than just one of the many e-mails that came through that week!

                      I have read that a good way to get more bang for your buck out of your protein is to make a gelatin broth out of it. The gelatin in there does something that makes the protein more available for your system to use, and you can add fat to that quite easily which makes it more substantial. I make a chicken soup that is VERY filling and yummy but really doesn't cost that much for a lot of meals. Just a thought. If you can find the feet or head to add in that helps add a good dose of the healthy kind of gelatin. Even an organic chicken goes a long way and can be relatively 'cheap' if cooked up with a bunch of veggies ... I make lots of soups and stews and then the less money we have the more veggies and broth they have in them to make them go further, they still feel really satisfying and yummy! And we are headed for the weather that it is really nice to eat those kind of foods. Just my two cents. Lots of hugs and hopeful thoughts coming your way!
                      Start weight: 225.5 lbs Feb 14th 2012. Height: 5'7"
                      Primal low: 186 lbs
                      Current weight: 221.4 lbs
                      Goal weight: 140 lbs

                      "You are free to choose, BUT you are not free from the consequences of your choices."

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                      • Hi Sabine. I agree that a face-to-face follow up is necessary and ideal. It'll make for a good impression on the employer and communicate to him that you have follow-up skills, which tend to be lacking in a lot of arenas - I am poor with follow-up skills and tend to annoy in most cases. lol

                        I don't know that I could work with the gal who says no too much either... I'd be too confused.
                        Primal since March 5, 2012
                        SW: 221 | CW: 204 | LPW: 166 | UGW: 140 (80 lbs loss)



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                        • If it is not one thing, it's five!

                          Coll-I've been throwing chicken feet into my broth for a few months now. The family got quite a shock when they saw them on top of the stock this last time as they were bubbling away. They haven't been thinking about what I put into the stock, just happily slurping it down. They do look a little pathetic, with their little fingernails, but I feel like Super-Crunchy-Earth-Mother when I use them!

                          I have been thinking about how to use the packets of gelatin I have in my pantry. Homemade headcheese substitute has been one of my ideas. And I love soups. Unfortunately, we love them most with homemade rolls. Well, although I may regret the excess 'bad' foods that will sneak into our diet during this budget crunch, they are just a fact of life. And I do make good rolls. They have pineapple juice and milk powder in them- soft and delicious!

                          The morning got a little crazy. Middlest's bed frame broke last night. It has been on shaky ground, and there are no more repairs I can finagle at this time. So I had to disassemble it, haul out the pieces, and lug in these four rolly storage drawers we have. Pushed together, those make a good base for her mattress until we get some cash for a new frame. All this in the midst of a typical teenager's room, that is, clothes everywhere. I am semi-handy, but I got a little frustrated and teary-eyed.

                          And Honey's interview got rescheduled. And our phone started fratzing out again. And then there were issues with my cell phone voice mail. And our kitchen sink backed up. Again.

                          All told, I am feeling very jittery. I am going to do my follow-up this afternoon, after I have pulled myself together a little. And eaten some bratwurst and sauerkraut.

                          Trojan- thanks for stopping by. I haven't seen you here before. Do you journal, too?

                          Jenn- I find that hard to believe. When I hear about you whipping out papers and proposals left and right, I can't imagine there is anything you are not on top of.

                          The sauerkraut is just getting better and better. I need to start a new batch pronto.

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                          • That "no" girl would have had me laughing! Thats just weird and funny! Obviously they need to fire "no" girl and hire someone with some language skills!

                            wow............. I'm still shaking my head over that one! Best respond to idiot employees..... "may I please speak to a manager?"

                            Good luck on the job search.
                            1. Love ME no matter what noises are screaming at me, or who is trying to tear me down.
                            2. Eat to heal
                            3. Move to live
                            4. Embrace today
                            5. Live with intention
                            6. Respect my body
                            7. Cultivate joy
                            8. Find my passion
                            9. Meditate on peace in my soul

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                            • Tomi- I think she WAS the manager!

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                              • Originally posted by Sabine View Post
                                Jenn- I find that hard to believe. When I hear about you whipping out papers and proposals left and right, I can't imagine there is anything you are not on top of.
                                Sabine, if you look a little closer, you'll see that I write my papers for school on the very last day that I can possibly complete them and still get full credit. The paper I wrote today is due tonight by 6 pm. One day I was printing out the paper to submit at 5:15, when I should have been packing up and heading to class. I'm very good at procrastinating...

                                The proposal I'm producing for work is because of another class assignment. I'm a secretary and not a very good one at that, in my opinion.

                                Finally, here is a picture of what my brain is like:

                                Primal since March 5, 2012
                                SW: 221 | CW: 204 | LPW: 166 | UGW: 140 (80 lbs loss)



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