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  • poor guy. not everything fits into the nice little molds.
    my primal journal:
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    • Originally posted by Saoirse View Post
      poor guy. not everything fits into the nice little molds.
      Oh, you will make it fit, G-ddammit!

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      • I know a couple who tried for years, decided (with the doctors) that it probably just wasn't going to happen. Went through the expense, time, etc. to adopt a little boy...couple months later mom's knocked up. So I guess stress or trying to make a baby makes it less likely that you're going to conceive.
        If I just said LOL, I lied. Do or do not. There is no try.

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        • Originally posted by justyouraveragecavemen View Post
          I know a couple who tried for years, decided (with the doctors) that it probably just wasn't going to happen. Went through the expense, time, etc. to adopt a little boy...couple months later mom's knocked up. So I guess stress or trying to make a baby makes it less likely that you're going to conceive.
          This seems to be a common theme as it happened to a couple I know as well. I always worry that the adopted kid will now get tossed aside. (Luckily not the case so far, and perhaps I am just paranoid)

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          • No, he's on my son's baseball team (his dad also helps coach), he's a mean little shithead but he doesn't get tossed aside. I seriously would beat him like a red head step-child if he were mine. My brother and his wife have been trying for a couple years and I think that it's the same thing, she puts so much thought and pressure on the act of making a baby that they're just trying to hard. It's not an exercise routine or a boot camp drill, it's wuv makin' yo.
            If I just said LOL, I lied. Do or do not. There is no try.

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            • Originally posted by justyouraveragecavemen View Post
              It's not an exercise routine or a boot camp drill, it's wuv makin' yo.
              damn, is that how it works? So should I not wear my ipod and carry a towel to wipe down the equipment after a set?

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              • I usually wear a towel, but the ipod is optional. I mean, don't listen to hard core heavy metal workout music while doing the horizontally parallel bent-over rows, things might get too intense. But then again, don't listen to "it's raining men" as your wife might mentally leave the room. Manilow would be alright for a yoga type routine, a la karma sutra, but if burning calories is a distant goal find something between, but not including, country music and the biebs.
                If I just said LOL, I lied. Do or do not. There is no try.

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                • We had a family at church with one girl and they wanted one more. Out popped triplets.

                  I wish there was a way to reduce fertility to the point that people need to actually work for/WANT a child before they get one. Less oopsies and having to work for something makes it that much more precious.
                  http://cattaillady.com/ My blog exploring the beginning stages of learning how to homestead. With the occasional rant.

                  Originally Posted by TheFastCat: Less is more more or less

                  And now I have an Etsy store: CattailsandCalendula

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                  • Originally posted by drssgchic View Post
                    We had a family at church with one girl and they wanted one more. Out popped triplets.

                    I wish there was a way to reduce fertility to the point that people need to actually work for/WANT a child before they get one. Less oopsies and having to work for something makes it that much more precious.
                    I don't know about that, your own kids are precious regardless of how long it took to conceive them.
                    If I just said LOL, I lied. Do or do not. There is no try.

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                    • Originally posted by drssgchic View Post
                      We had a family at church with one girl and they wanted one more. Out popped triplets.

                      I wish there was a way to reduce fertility to the point that people need to actually work for/WANT a child before they get one. Less oopsies and having to work for something makes it that much more precious.
                      While it would be nice to have to qualify at least minimally to be a parent, infertility is the suck! I have several friends that have been through it and it completely ruins the normal relationship. Sex looses all the good meanings and becomes about making a baby and how incompitent they both feel after so many failures. The divorce rate actually goes way up after being through something like this. Can you imagine working so hard to have a child with someone you have now grown to hate? I guess it happens in many other situations as well, but it really sucks when kids are involved.

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                      • I guess I'm going off of what I see- which is too many women that "wish I hadn't had them so young/had so many/etc" versus my cousin that worked so very hard for her son and he is so very, very precious to her. I don't want infertility per se-I know that's very hard on everyone- just lower fertility. You need to try three times instead of one. Somewhat delayed gratification.

                        S- chocolate almond butter and larabar
                        D- ground beef and cheese over kale, red wine, chocolate chips
                        http://cattaillady.com/ My blog exploring the beginning stages of learning how to homestead. With the occasional rant.

                        Originally Posted by TheFastCat: Less is more more or less

                        And now I have an Etsy store: CattailsandCalendula

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                        • All I had to do was snap my fingers and BAM! the wife's knocked up. Sometimes it even happened when I was out of town.
                          If I just said LOL, I lied. Do or do not. There is no try.

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                          • Originally posted by drssgchic View Post
                            I don't want infertility per se-I know that's very hard on everyone- just lower fertility. You need to try three times instead of one.
                            Huhhh-huhhh. You said "hard on."

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                            • Originally posted by Finnegans Wake View Post
                              Huhhh-huhhh. You said "hard on."
                              Dang FW, you channeled some Butt-head there!

                              Huh Huh, Beavis, she said hard on. Huh Huh Huh.
                              If I just said LOL, I lied. Do or do not. There is no try.

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                              • Mrs. FW and I got married a little later (mid-30s), and kids just never happened for us. We've talked about adoption, and even though we're in our late 40s now I feel pretty damned zippy, and think I could keep up with a little one. But sometimes I do wish we had had a kid early on.

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