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  • #76
    Originally posted by Gorbag View Post
    Keep on dreaming then...
    chicken
    beautiful
    yeah you are

    Baby if you time travel back far enough you can avoid that work because the dust won't be there. You're too pretty to be working that hard.
    lol

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    • #77
      Magnolia-

      Did you know that when peasants were farming but couldn't afford a horse, it was the wife that pulled the plow? Frankly, I think that's kinda fucking awesome. And it's because we CAN develop thighs like that first lifter. So, you know, being compared to a farm animal isn't always bad
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      • #78
        Originally posted by bloodorchid View Post
        chicken
        You started the "I bet" talk, but then you chicken out on my following up...
        "All truth passes through three stages. First, it is ridiculed. Second, it is violently opposed. Third, it is accepted as being self-evident."

        - Schopenhauer

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        • #79
          How do u feel when u see a woman lift heavy?

          Originally posted by magnolia1973 View Post
          No, I was blaming people (any people) who liken women to hogs for causing eating disorders.

          How would you feel if your photo was posted somewhere and someone said "Let's render their fat". Would you feel good about yourself? I mean seriously, I've been likened to farm animals in a lot of instances in my life from everyone spanning my mother to random strangers. Trust me, it chips at one's psyche and takes a LONG time to get over. The worst is when it starts to pull you away from something you love doing. It's straight up not necessary to ever make a comment like that. It never made me feel bad when people pointed out the pretty girls on their horses. It fucking cut me to the core to be told that I just looked like a fat ass. I honestly felt like I was less of a person. No one should ever be made to feel that way in order to entertain or satisfy others.
          I have always been called fat. That is just my parents and my culture (Asian culture = anything other than wire thin is fat). I don't understand being a sour grape over it, I guess.

          My guy friend once made a comment about how the car sunk down lower because I sat in the car. I slapped him and now we are good friends.

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          • #80
            So, you know, being compared to a farm animal isn't always bad
            Eh, it's all about the context. Trust me, when the comments were made towards me, they weren't praising my potential for plow pulling. I'd say 99% of the time it's a comment make to make the commenter feel better about their shortcomings.

            Like awesome, you have a beautiful wife, so why is it necessary to put down fat, ugly wives? Does it make you feel better? Is it necessary?

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            • #81
              Originally posted by Gorbag View Post
              You started the "I bet" talk, but then you chicken out on my following up...
              because you want me to pay for your trip!
              beautiful
              yeah you are

              Baby if you time travel back far enough you can avoid that work because the dust won't be there. You're too pretty to be working that hard.
              lol

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              • #82
                I don't understand being a sour grape over it, I guess.
                Because I see today, how much better I am treated as an "attractive person" in parts of life that are irrelevant to being attractive. Like when I was in design school, I used to go to studio to do my work, and other students mooed at me. I was not asking them for dates or to assess my weight. I was trying to get my assignments done. I was harassed constantly and hence had to work at home and was less productive. I'm not mad that there were pretty girls. Or that they liked the pretty girls. I'm mad that they harassed me because I was not "pretty" despite the fact that good product design has nothing to do with one's appearance.

                I think above all, fat people want to be left alone. I don't think they mind when you look at a beautiful woman and call them beautiful. I think they get mad when they start being degraded for not being beautiful in irrelevant situations. It sucks the enjoyment out of things.

                You are super lucky that it rolls off your back. For many women, it absolutely does not and it ends up being a limiting factor on what they can achieve because it erodes self confidence over time to be put down for your appearance in every aspect of your life.

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                • #83
                  Originally posted by OldSchhool View Post
                  My Dad always used to tell me to date ugly fat women because they are more grateful !

                  I didn't follow his advice though !

                  Hey, that's Donkey Calf-raises OldSchool! I sometimes do them here in my office with two of my assistants sitting on my hip and back! Great exercise btw...
                  "All truth passes through three stages. First, it is ridiculed. Second, it is violently opposed. Third, it is accepted as being self-evident."

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                  • #84
                    I don't really get the big deal over wording, I was fat and bald in this pic, saying I was husky and folliclly challenged wouldn't have made me feel any better.



                    I used the pic as incentive to lose the weight, I'm still bald as a coot but I've learned to embrace the baldness !

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                    • #85
                      Originally posted by bloodorchid View Post
                      because you want me to pay for your trip!
                      Not at all, only to put in the half of the bet! I'll pay my trip though...
                      "All truth passes through three stages. First, it is ridiculed. Second, it is violently opposed. Third, it is accepted as being self-evident."

                      - Schopenhauer

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                      • #86
                        Originally posted by magnolia1973 View Post
                        Eh, it's all about the context. Trust me, when the comments were made towards me, they weren't praising my potential for plow pulling. I'd say 99% of the time it's a comment make to make the commenter feel better about their shortcomings.

                        Like awesome, you have a beautiful wife, so why is it necessary to put down fat, ugly wives? Does it make you feel better? Is it necessary?
                        I totally get where you're coming from. I've never been treated that badly, but I was also older when I really put on my weight, so people are a little less verbally rude.

                        I just found it to be an interesting factoid- and something to help me come to terms with the fact that I'm built like a farm wife. At my leanest, I'm far from delicate. However, now that I look at the delicate cardio bunnies and say "I could pick one of you up in each hand" instead of "woe is me, I've got a big ass" it's easier to be happy with me.

                        (Well, I will be able to pick one up in each hand. Need to get on that.)
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                        Originally Posted by TheFastCat: Less is more more or less

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                        • #87
                          Originally posted by Gorbag View Post
                          Hey, that's Donkey Calf-raises OldSchool! I sometimes do them here in my office with two of my assistants sitting on my hip and back! Great exercise btw...
                          Awesome exercise buddy, I have fond memories of me doing them as a teenager with my granddad on my back.....man I miss that guy !

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                          • #88
                            I don't really get the big deal over wording, I was fat and bald in this pic, saying I was husky and folliclly challenged wouldn't have made me feel any better.
                            You alluded "fat and ugly women are grateful" which kind of alludes to the idea that they don't have better options because they aren't pretty. They may well have better options. If you had said "Big boned less attractive women are grateful" it would not have been any less crappy of a statement.

                            I totally get where you're coming from. I've never been treated that badly, but I was also older when I really put on my weight, so people are a little less verbally rude.
                            Yeah, I think being older you are more invisible. I found the meanest people were middle of the road in terms of attractiveness. Most of my friends, men and women, were very attractive and secure in their appearance. Most of the cruelest people were probably just trying to make themselves feel better. I think that stops as you get older.

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                            • #89
                              Originally posted by magnolia1973 View Post
                              You alluded "fat and ugly women are grateful" which kind of alludes to the idea that they don't have better options because they aren't pretty. They may well have better options. If you had said "Big boned less attractive women are grateful" it would not have been any less crappy of a statement.


                              Yeah, I think being older you are more invisible. I found the meanest people were middle of the road in terms of attractiveness. Most of my friends, men and women, were very attractive and secure in their appearance. Most of the cruelest people were probably just trying to make themselves feel better. I think that stops as you get older.
                              I was using the wording from my Dad, he has never been a man known for his tact. If I didn't stand up to bullies I wasn't being passive I was chicken shit or wimpy, if I struggled to do my homework I wasn't slow of mind I was thick or stupid. I think we can bubble wrap stuff too much now days, the world can be a very cruel place so in my opinion it's best hardening up as early as possible so you are better able to deal with what it can throw at you.

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                              • #90
                                Magnolia,
                                I see your point. It is hurtful. I just don't think being easily butt hurt due to content and jokes on teh internetz is the way to go.




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