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4 May

A Primal Comeback

It’s Friday, everyone! And that means another Primal Blueprint Real Life Story from a Mark’s Daily Apple reader. If you have your own success story and would like to share it with me and the Mark’s Daily Apple community please contact me here. I’ll continue to publish these each Friday as long as they keep coming in. Thank you for reading!

real life stories stories 1 2For most of my adult life I’ve been called many things, but “skinny” has taken some getting use to.

For years I repeatedly followed the conventional ritual of low-fat, low-calorie dieting paired with exercise to lose weight. With each attempt I would lose weight, sometimes as much as a few dozen pounds at a time. However, constant hunger eventually won out over my best efforts to eat less while exercising more (as prescribed by the “calories in, calories out” mindset). I would regain the lost weight and then some. When New Year’s came along, I would resolve myself to try harder than the previous attempt. The sad part is that each time I expected different results doing roughly the same thing. Unfortunately, after losing and regaining the weight three times, I quit caring about my own health, even despite my wife’s concerns.

I had lost hope that I had any real power to change or control my fate from being anything other than desperate, obese, and fatigued. I was becoming a model customer for the highly profitable drug, dieting, and medical industries. Inwardly, I blamed myself for lacking the self-discipline needed to lose and keep weight off. As I grew more obese, I eventually had to shop for larger clothes in big and tall men’s clothing stores and catalogs. Being only 5’ 8” on a good day and tipping the scales north of 350 pounds at this point, I wasn’t shopping for clothes in these venues because I was tall!

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At the age of 26, in what is supposed to be the prime of my life, I was literally winded and sweating just walking into work each morning. I began to see myself the way society probably thought of me at first glance: a lazy glutton who either does not know how to count calories or ultimately chooses to remain obese. I eventually entered into a state of apathy about my health for the next year.

Fortunately, after watching my weight and health slowly deteriorate from the sidelines, a good friend of mine persuaded me to join a gym again. However, this time, instead of doing roughly the same weight loss ritual a fourth time, I wanted to try something not just mildly different with eating but completely different and unconventional.

While researching, I found what I was looking for when I stumbled onto this website and later The Primal Blueprint. Not wanting to wait for a hard copy, I downloaded The Primal Blueprint onto my e-reader and poured over it intently as I struggled to use the elliptical machine. With the exception of maybe vegetables and water being good for people, what I learned about Primal nutrition and lifestyle went against almost everything I had been taught as “healthy” since elementary school. Deep down, most of us want to think of ourselves as “health conscious” to some degree, but much of what it means to be “health conscious” is monopolized by today’s conventional weight loss advice. In retrospect, holding onto such ideas of what “health conscious” people are supposed to believe and eat was dragging me into the depths of poor health.

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Mark’s clear and engaging writing style forced me to contemplate the possibility that what was lacking in my previous weight loss attempts was not self-discipline or motivation but the conventional advice itself. Like pulling harder and harder against a door that says “Push,” perhaps what I had done in the past was working against my body rather than with it. Instead of blaming myself, I thought, “maybe I didn’t fail to follow conventional advice but conventional advice failed me.” This possibility rekindled the hope and optimism that was all but extinguished as collateral damage during my previous weight loss attempts.

Up to this point, gastric bypass was becoming a looming option if I couldn’t reverse course and keep weight off. Frightened by this prospect and a painful family history of Type 2 diabetes (my mom is in end stage renal failure), I urgently experimented with Primal low-carb eating right away, even before I had completely finished reading The Primal Blueprint. I wasn’t going to wait for 40 years of conventional weight loss advice to improve its dismal track record. I needed to change now.

Lacking any culinary skills or imagination, I started simple. Eggs, bacon, butter, fish, sausage, steak, broccoli, lettuce, low-sugar yogurts, some cheeses, nuts, and the occasional whey protein shake all quickly became staples of mine for two weeks. I was a little hesitant to eat bacon, eggs, butter, and steak because I was raised to believe these were “bad” foods. But I took a primal hop of faith that such foods that have been part of human history for much of our existence wouldn’t suddenly do harm to my health now. It also helped that they happen to taste great!

After my full two week low-carb Primal trial, limiting myself to just 25 net carbs per day (the amount where I discovered that would keep me in nutritional ketosis), I dropped 15 pounds. This wasn’t the only positive change I experienced. Unlike previous attempts, the blood sugar roller coaster that I rode every day eating low-fat/high-carb, which I had come to accept as “normal,” completely stopped. I consistently had more energy, which made it easier to move more. I rarely craved sweets as my taste buds were beginning to rehabilitate themselves from years of abuse. I felt years younger, and portion sizing seemed to take care of itself as my appetite was sated.

The rekindled hope that I could control my health and fate soon transformed into an implacable appetite to learn more. As I continued to lose more weight and feel great, I devoured as much paleo and low-carb literature as I could find. I read blogs and books by Drs. Michael and Mary Dan Eades, Dr. Cate Shanahan, Gary Taubes, and many others; I listened to many podcasts from Jimmy Moore. Although not Primal or low-carb per se, I also read a lot of Michael Pollan who piqued my curiosity about how and where my food is made. For almost a year, I would actually look forward to using the elliptical machine just so I could unlearn and re-educate myself about food and nutrition science in peace. Learning to conquer my fears of so-called “artery clogging saturated fats” (talk about a loaded phrase!) and cholesterol in my foods were two of many epiphanies I experienced as I was embracing more of the low-carb Primal lifestyle.

Over time, I implemented more of what I was learning by eating more real, whole, low-carb foods whose ingredients I could pronounce without a PhD in chemistry. However, at various points, I dabbled with various low-carb products like Atkins bars, diet sodas, ice creams, low-carb breads, and shirataki noodles (these I still use on occasion). As a lifelong rice eater (as is common for many Filipinos) and pasta lover, shirataki noodles helped me substitute staple foods that had long been part of my upbringing without raising my blood sugar levels. As my culinary imagination started expanding, I eventually phased out the Atkins bars, diet sodas, ice-creams, low-carb breads, and protein shakes. In the process, I also started buying more local grass-fed meats and became more creative with incorporating vegetables (like using zucchini as a pasta substitute for spaghetti) into my meals. While I gave up many starches, grains, and sweets during my journey, the inner peace that results from greatly improved health has been far sweeter than any sugar substitute on the market.

Of course, being human, about once a week, I would also have one off-plan meal or item but would get right back on track the next day. As weird as this may sound, I never feel better eating my off-plan meal than I do when I’m on-plan but still do it anyway. While the once a week off-plan meal may have slowed my progress and thrown me out of ketosis several times, it’s a tradeoff I’ve consciously made for the rest of my life going forward. When I’m feeling consistently awesome for 6 days straight or longer, sometimes I take this feeling for granted until I splurge on that off-plan meal. I am immediately reminded and humbled that even though on the outside my body looks completely different, in some fundamental ways it’s still the same as before underneath, especially with blood sugar control issues.

After just five months, my journey became real. I reached my 60-pound weight loss milestone. I originally set this goal because it was more than I had lost in any of my attempts at low-fat dieting and exercise. This time, however, in becoming a keto-adapted, fat-burning beast, neither superhuman discipline nor constant hunger was necessary to reach this milestone. After 60 pounds, I’ve never looked back.

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About seven months later when I had lost 120 pounds, I was fortunate enough to be able to join a racquetball league that had just started at my gym. I’ve never had any desire to run a marathon or any kind of race, and I was running out of nutrition and health books to read on my e-reader. As a result, I was growing bored with the elliptical machine. Racquetball, as I quickly discovered, was the perfect game for people, like me, who don’t like to run long distances or against a clock. It has provided a fun and social way to obtain a high intensity workout.

Throughout my journey, the vast majority of people have been both supportive and amazed at the progress I’ve made. My beautiful wife in particular, who has loved me unconditionally in both poor health and better health, has been my biggest supporter throughout my Primal transformation.

However, scattered along the way, a few well intentioned skeptics, still wedded to conventional wisdom notions of “healthy” as I once was, expressed various “concerns” about my long-term health as a result of me eating low-carb Primal. But as such “concerns” have yet to materialize I’ve learned to let my results speak for themselves and continue living my life.

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I’ve been fortunate enough to lose 150 pounds (from at least 350 to 200), 38% body fat (from 50% to 12%), 12 pant sizes (from 54 to 30), 6 shirt sizes (from 4XL to Small), and 7 inches around my neck (from 24 inches to 17) within 16 months. Furthermore, I’ve also effortlessly maintained my weight and body fat composition during the past two months. I’ve conquered the sleep apnea I’ve had since high school. And on top of all this, I’ve had no new cavities. In fact, even though I’ve very rarely been sick since going Primal, I actually look forward to visiting my medical doctor now for annual exams, which include blood panel tests (click to enlarge). Not too bad for an accountant who sits the majority of the day!

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In eating Primal, I’ve reignited hope and optimism. I’ve firmly taken back control over my health and my life. I’m never letting go again.

If I have become optimistic, leaner and healthier, it is because I have been privileged enough to stand on the shoulders of paleo giants like Mark and others committed to living a lower-carb lifestyle. I feel an enormous sense of gratitude for the tremendous opportunity to transform my life for the better and share it publicly on this forum. I look forward to helping others who have been in my shoes.

Charlie

You want comments? We got comments:

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  1. WOW!!! I couldn’t stop smiling as I read this. Way to go!! I am so very proud!

    Katie wrote on May 4th, 2012
  2. Wow! What an amazing story! Congrats on regaining your health Charlie!

    Carla wrote on May 4th, 2012
  3. Holy shiznit, you look awesome dude!!!
    Congrats on your huge success!

    Arty wrote on May 4th, 2012
  4. Wow, great story, I shared with a lot of people! Keep up the good work. I’m still trying to keep my carbs low. This was the push I needed to get into a fat burning machine mode. Hope you all have a great weekend (as it’s Friday) and may the 4th be with you!!! ;)

    Matt wrote on May 4th, 2012
  5. Truly inspiring! You look fantastic!

    Siobhan wrote on May 4th, 2012
  6. Great stuff!! What a story!

    Can someone define the ‘numbers profile’ and what signifies good/bad??

    Michael wrote on May 4th, 2012
  7. That’s so amazing! You’re so amazing! This made me smile so much, and I’m really happy for you. Thanks for sharing!

    atid wrote on May 4th, 2012
  8. Hard work pays off! What an accomplishment. Thanks for sharing your lipid profiles. The labs speak volumes on top of your personal story.

    Marisol wrote on May 4th, 2012
  9. Fantastic! You have a long, happy and FIT life ahead of you. You are inspiring!

    KerryK wrote on May 4th, 2012
  10. What a great and well written story. I love some of the phrases and language you used to paint us a picture of your journey, such as “primal hop of faith.” (I was a bit surprised when I read that you were an accountant.) Congratulations on your successes and thank you for sharing.

    Littlewing198 wrote on May 4th, 2012
  11. That is AWESOME!!! Congrats!!! What an inspiration! Keep up the good work! :)

    Primal Pants wrote on May 4th, 2012
  12. So inspiring!

    Amber wrote on May 4th, 2012
  13. Add me to all the WOW’S everyone has expressed and may I suggest that you send your story to the JOY Fit Club on the NBC morning Today Show.

    It would be great to have a primal person featured in Joy’s segment. Most of the people she features have lost weight with low fat eating and upping their exercise. While their weight loss is impressive, most don’t really look fit. You would be a great representative for our tribe. Think about it.

    Sharon wrote on May 4th, 2012
    • A co-worker of mine recently told me about this show. I’d love to do some research on it.

      Charlie wrote on May 6th, 2012
  14. Awesome story and transformation! I am curious to know what your exercise routine was like. Did you follow Primal Blueprint Fitness or something else?

    Rhonda wrote on May 4th, 2012
    • For awhile I used 30-minute personal training sessions that came with my gym membership. However, I tell people that what you do with those other 23.5 hours in a day is far more important than the training sessions themselves.

      Charlie wrote on May 4th, 2012
  15. Holy crap a-wow-wow!! You did good, no, great! Congratulations on your amazing success and continued wellness!

    Tina wrote on May 4th, 2012
  16. SERIOUSLY AWESOME post! Your story is so uplifting and well written. I want to send it to every person I know (even if weight loss isn’t their goal.) You can actually see the joy and hope in your face as well as your words. Just fantastic, I hope you’re as proud of yourself as you should be!

    tonya wrote on May 4th, 2012
  17. Wow Charlie,
    Enjoy the glow, once again this community has demonstrated to me how affirming it is. It’ great to see youth defying the definition of insanity: doing the same thing over and over and expecting a different result. I will show this to my eldest son, who is tinkering around the edges, because he lives at home, he is semi primal, but your story may just give him the nudge he needs.
    One thing I find with this lifestyle is the relief of finding a path through the maze of conflicting doctrines that is simple, effortless and delicious. You certainly look like you are enjoying life now, such a buzz,
    Cheers

    Heather wrote on May 4th, 2012
    • A lot of times when we visit our doctor, we’re told what our end result numbers must be and essentially told, “Good Luck!”

      Charlie wrote on May 4th, 2012
  18. HOLY CRAP! This is one of the best stories I’ve read on here. So inspiring. Congratulations on your new life. MABUHAY!

    mariss wrote on May 4th, 2012
  19. That is a truly inspirational story. Thank you for sharing your journey. You can’t argue with results like that. I agree too about the blood sugar spikes. That is the biggest thing that keeps me primal. I feel so much better. You look amazing. Never look back!!!!

    Laura wrote on May 4th, 2012
    • I just can’t believe that for most of my life I just thought the blood sugar roller coaster was “normal”! Keep up your good work and party like a Grok-star! =)

      Charlie wrote on May 6th, 2012
  20. Congratulations on your success! I wish these Friday stories were required reading for anyone attending (or running!) a bariatric clinic There is a better way!!

    Island Girl wrote on May 4th, 2012
  21. Awesome!!!!!! Keep on Grokkin and have a great weekend Charlie!!

    brian wrote on May 4th, 2012
  22. AWESOME! Nice to see a fellow Hoosier Grok! Very inspiring!

    Sara wrote on May 4th, 2012
  23. Excellent work!

    Greg wrote on May 4th, 2012
  24. Wow Charlie! What an inspiring, beautifully written story! Congratulations, you look amazing!

    Caroline wrote on May 4th, 2012
  25. I’ll add the general feeling of awe and admiration for your accomplishments. As I scrolled to your after pics, I expected to see at least one of you throwing a spear at a bison!

    I’ll second the comments about your writing skill, and I’m a writer myself. You definitely could develop an avocation, but don’t give up your day job; accounting pays better.

    jake3_14 wrote on May 4th, 2012
    • Thanks for the compliments! You are very kind. Given the feedback so far, I will definitely try to do more writing in the future.

      Charlie wrote on May 4th, 2012
  26. You are a true inspiration to others. Congratulations on your hard work and your success!

    Penny wrote on May 4th, 2012
  27. Charlie, congratulations! Your story is very encouraging.

    Mary wrote on May 4th, 2012
  28. I normally just lurk but WOW! You are so inspiring Charlie! Amazing work!

    Michelle wrote on May 4th, 2012
  29. Terrific work Charlie – what an amazing transformation. The photos alone should silence the naysayers!

    Odille Esmonde-Morgan wrote on May 4th, 2012
  30. Wow Charlie,amazing. It brought a tear to my eyes because your before story was my story too before going primal.keep up the good job.

    Betty wrote on May 4th, 2012
  31. Congratulation you really look good, thanks for this inspiring story!

    WildGrok wrote on May 4th, 2012
  32. Woooowwww..eeee…….you look awesome. Well done sir. Surely people you haven’t seen for a year don’t recognise you? Fridays rock!

    Hilary M wrote on May 4th, 2012
  33. Wow! I am so impressed by your accomplishment! Kudos to you for recognizing the wisdom of the Primal plan and sticking with it. It works and you are proof of it!!

    Julie wrote on May 4th, 2012
  34. This is an AMAZING transformation! Congrats on your new healthy body! I for one am sick of nutritionists and most of society looking at overweight/obese people as if they are simply lazy and/or not dedicated to your diet. There are many people that don’t diet/exercise and don’t become obese/overweight. (my husband is one of them).
    It is nearly IMPOSSIBLE to go on a food pyramid, calorie restricted diet and “stick to it.” Eating primal is the only way to eventually stop cravings and have satiety after eating.

    Melissa wrote on May 4th, 2012
    • I agree. I often wonder how many people simply give up after trying to “eat healthy” a few times, like I once did. I was fortunate enough to have a good friend of mine intervene when he did (and these are tricky conversations to have), and then from there, stumble onto this website 18 months ago.

      Charlie wrote on May 4th, 2012
  35. Thanks for sharing your story. I’ve been eating paleo for almost 3 weeks now and have noticed wonderful changes in my energy level and overall well-being. Your story is going to help me keep making truly healthy choices.

    Meg wrote on May 4th, 2012
  36. Congratulations-you rock!

    Cynthia Murnane wrote on May 4th, 2012
  37. Fantastic!! You have pulled me up out of my rainy-weather funk! You look almarmingly good–thanks for the inspiration! And you have a very readable writing style!

    Connie wrote on May 4th, 2012
  38. The smile on your face says it all. Congratulations!!!

    Gayla wrote on May 4th, 2012
  39. I love this story! Your enthusiasm and your smile say it all…thanks so much for sharing your success with us. I think it is so interesting to read that other followed the baby steps along with the big ones…your steps lead you to success!

    Erin wrote on May 4th, 2012
  40. Arrgggh! So inspiring my face wants to crack in half from smiling.

    Seriously man, well done. I hope a day never goes by where you don’t realise and feel like the absolute MAN for all that you have achieved.

    I’ve recently started the journey you did 16 months ago, and being 2 months into it, stories like yours just make me even happier in my choice and make me even more aware of how this is the right thing for me to be doing! I hope in 14 months I am even half as successful as you are now :)

    Jay wrote on May 4th, 2012
    • @Jay- Thanks man! Your words mean a lot to me. I wish you the best of luck on your Primal journey. Just never give up on yourself. When I started out, I, too, read a lot of real life success stories eating this way from time to time, and Friday was my pay of paying that inspiration forward.

      Charlie wrote on May 6th, 2012

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